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IrvingWolfe
May 11th, 2015, 11:06 PM
Basically this is a list of things about me related to my romantic and sexual preferences, and they make people I know think I'm a freak. does anyone have thoughts or advice about this?

1) I'm bisexual (or pan. not sure which)
2) I'm 18 (19 in august) and I'm still a virgin
3) I like my relationships to be more physical
4) I'm interested in a polyamorous relationship
5) I've previously been interested in having friends with benefits
6)I don't drink, smoke, or party
7) I have varying interests in some kinky things
8) I fall for people easily
9) I have a hard time moving on after rejection
10) I find girls with nose piercings (nostril, not septum) attractive
11) I find guys with some arm and leg hair attractive
12) I like girls who have their hair cut short more than girls with really long hair

Uniquemind
May 11th, 2015, 11:19 PM
Seems pretty normal to me. You just seem to have a judgmental group of real life friends.

As long as you don't feel good, because you hurt other living things --animals and people for instance-- I think you're within the normal range.

IrvingWolfe
May 12th, 2015, 12:43 AM
I'm not even specifically looking for advice here. I'd just like to hear what people think about me after reading the list (and please be honest)

Uniquemind
May 12th, 2015, 05:00 AM
I'm not even specifically looking for advice here. I'd just like to hear what people think about me after reading the list (and please be honest)

I was honest I just ran out of things to say to you partly because you posted within the "help and advice" section.

Answer: your normal so stop stressing and caring what others think. Life life while you can...

audiophile5
May 12th, 2015, 06:27 AM
Doesn't sound strange to me. I'm like you in some of the matters you listed there (though I do occasionally drink/smoke, but that doesn't really make a big difference I guess) ��)

Dying Ember
May 12th, 2015, 06:59 AM
When I read this, nothing striked me as 'abnormal' or 'weird' :)

James Dean
May 12th, 2015, 07:39 AM
You seem like an open guy. :)

RavenR
May 17th, 2015, 05:10 AM
a pretty normal background. What do you think people might find strange?

Body odah Man
May 17th, 2015, 05:40 AM
It goes against the norm in a few aspects, but not in a bad, messed up way. You're fine really

KingLiam
May 17th, 2015, 07:01 AM
Nothing weird their to me I'm nearly the same

VictoriaShadows
May 18th, 2015, 05:01 PM
You seem pretty normal. You just have you're specific tastes

Microcosm
May 18th, 2015, 08:19 PM
I think you might be over-analyzing yourself. You're totally normal!

Everyone has their odd or unique preferences when it comes to partners, and personally I find none of the things in this list to be abnormal. You seem perfectly fine, so no need to worry about it. :)