Do girls get attracted to bboys(breakdancers/hiphop dancers)?

[Tunero]

hello guys,
please, i wanna know, do girls like or get attracted to breakdancers and bboys apart from the regular getting to like a guy for their personality/character? you know those guys do some amazing superhuman moves, and i just wanted to know your opinion?? what do you think?:what:

[Let Me Be a Pony]

LOL!

Erm... If their personality is not bad I guess so?
I wouldn't approach a girl if she was a break dancer and had a shitty personality.
The personality matters a lot, broski.

BUT they would [-]hypothetically[/-] theoretically get attached to anyone if they're drunk enough.

[Tunero]

it's so hard to understand girls...

[Melodic]

Each girl finds different things attractive and unattractive. I hate to break it to you, but just because you have talent doesn't mean you'll win somebody over. Who you are as a person is what will win a girl over.

[Microcosm]

If I were a girl, I'd just look at something like that as just a neat talent. I guess it's sort of attractive in its own unique way, not like a guy being buff or anything. It's not the same kind of attractiveness.

[Tunero]

Each girl finds different things attractive and unattractive. I hate to break it to you, but just because you have talent doesn't mean you'll win somebody over. Who you are as a person is what will win a girl over.

Okay thanks for replying, i wish more kind girls like this will reply on this topic...

but why do girls forget about "who you are as a person" when a guy is rich and has money? and why is it so freaking hard for girls to like honest guys?:what:

[Let Me Be a Pony]

but why do girls forget about "who you are as a person" when a guy is rich and has money? and why is it so freaking hard for girls to like honest guys?:what:

Because those sort of girls are the modern equivalent of sluts.
And note that not all girls forget about who you are when you got green paper droppings.

[Tunero]

Ok Glossary, thanks for sharing your knowledge with me...

do you think it's right if i showoff my skills in public places or classroom to impress girls and stuff? or should i pretend like a normal average nerd person?

[Ridonks_CB]

I guess I'm not the best at answering this :P
if ya want to show off your talent, go ahead, just don't do it everytime a girl walks past because that's pretty annoying.

[Tunero]

I guess I'm not the best at answering this :P
if ya want to show off your talent, go ahead, just don't do it everytime a girl walks past because that's pretty annoying.

Thanks for the tip :P Nice signature you've got there...

[Ridonks_CB]

Thanks for the tip :P Nice signature you've got there...

Thank you~

[fairmaiden]

Okay thanks for replying, i wish more kind girls like this will reply on this topic...

but why do girls forget about "who you are as a person" when a guy is rich and has money? and why is it so freaking hard for girls to like honest guys?:what:
Alot of us don't forget about personality and concentrate on money; we're not all golddiggers lmfao
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To answer your question; I think there are quite a few girls out there who see breakdancing as an absolutely amazing talent to have; although I think most of us concentrate on personality more than anything. It's incredibly hard to like someone who is all about their looks, or doesn't have the same/similar humour. It's also very hard to like someone who thinks they're better than other people, or is a mean person in general. Breakdancing is a pretty cool talent to have, and it definitely wouldn't be a negative.

As Ridonks_CB said, don't flaunt your skills everytime a girl walks past lol, but you can always show off your talent in the right place at the right time :)

[Uniquemind]

Because those sort of girls are the modern equivalent of sluts.
And note that not all girls forget about who you are when you got green paper droppings.


Ouch that's a bit harsh Glossary, and slut isn't defined, it's just a generalized term meant to convey anger or dissatisfaction with a group of other people in comparison to yourself.

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To the OP's follow up questions and to some of the rest of the responders to this thread I say this:



1. What attracts a girl to a guy varies from girl to girl, and is largely culturally influenced based on the rules and expectations of that society.


2. Girls also choose to go with one guy(s) vs. another guy depending on what they're seeking out in life at the current stage of their life.


If the girl herself knows she's just looking for a fun time, she'll seek boys based on being rebellious and what can give her the thrills she's looking for. Bad boys tend to be more spontaneous and unpredictable than nice guys, and so psychologically they're more entertained by the bad boy type.

Compound those arguments when the bad boy in question has money. Because money = more options for adventure and exploring the world, and more activities to do (movies, miniature golf, trips to the beach, resort vacations, higher social connections and gatherings).

Having a rich friend or boyfriend/girlfriend that takes you on all these awesome adventures is a real high, and that goes for both boys and girls. If that friend is paying for all of those experiences you're less likely to accept that their really a jackass guy who is probably going to screw you over in the end. But if the girl has plans to just sexually screw around or even just hang in that social circle and not do anything sexual, and she knows she's only in for the short-term, this explains why girls go for bad guys.



3. Girls do care about personality in the long run. Although if they went through a "wild stage" they might be carrying psychological baggage from that time in their life that could be hampering their attempts at settling down. They also could have trouble understanding what it is like to actually pursue a nice guy and have a stable relationship if they aren't used to doing that. Then there's the whole issue of them hopefully trusting themselves to have trust in other people which is essential to having a health romantic and sexual relationship.



To summarize this I will say this:

If guys want sexual variety in their youth regarding the physical beauty and conquest of women, women in turn want variety in the concept of emotional-thrills and experiences which may or may not be sexual.


Also looks matter less to women, but they still do matter to women, especially when they're seeking a thrill to experience a super hot guy, just to say they had a taste of that life and that they we're able to be desirable to that kind of person. Again it's about experiences and the flexing of feminine power within society it's intoxicating. (same goes with penis size btw)



Dating and being young is a lot like tasting new foods...and different takes on the same meal. You're trying to find what works for you and what "tastes" best.




4. As for talents (special skills or hobbies) a guy would have, that just adds a nice foundation of intellectual conversation during dates. Talking and listening is essential to strong flirting, and strong flirting is essential to getting turned on and being sexually attracted to a guy even temporarily. There is no direct causation but there is an indirect (connect-the-dots) link for having special talents and maintaining a memorable place in a girl's mind.

If a guy is forgettable to a girl, that guy has no chance with her. Mentally she's banished him to a part of her mind that just vaguely records what she experienced that day.

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Just look at these forums, when a girl is attracted to a guy, she can't get him out of her head or thoughts of him keep resurfacing throughout the day.




Honest guys are fine and they have just as much chance as the "bad boys" but they have to be fun to be with and they have to be assertive.


I think what holds honest guys back is that they are too timid or fearful of rejection, and they have a hard time understanding how to flirt and be fun, while not be overtly crass and gross. They can also come across as extremely controlling and judgmental of what can and can't be done in a relationship once we're in one with them, and declared verbal limits of what a girl can and cannot do within a relationship is a major turnoff and is very offensive to most women.


So let me end my feedback with a question:

What is a good guy defined as for a girl and why do you think they're defined that way? Keep in mind some girls will say that the definition is chauvinistic. Anything chauvinistic implies that females are lesser and don't know what they want from life, and nice guys have to break that stereotype which does work against them.

[Tunero]

Ouch that's a bit harsh Glossary, and slut isn't defined, it's just a generalized term meant to convey anger or dissatisfaction with a group of other people in comparison to yourself.

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To the OP's follow up questions and to some of the rest of the responders to this thread I say this:



1. What attracts a girl to a guy varies from girl to girl, and is largely culturally influenced based on the rules and expectations of that society.


2. Girls also choose to go with one guy(s) vs. another guy depending on what they're seeking out in life at the current stage of their life.


If the girl herself knows she's just looking for a fun time, she'll seek boys based on being rebellious and what can give her the thrills she's looking for. Bad boys tend to be more spontaneous and unpredictable than nice guys, and so psychologically they're more entertained by the bad boy type.

You're amazing! you have just impacted knowledge to alot of guys out there like me. THANKS

Alot of us don't forget about personality and concentrate on money; we're not all golddiggers lmfao
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To answer your question; I think there are quite a few girls out there who see breakdancing as an absolutely amazing talent to have; although I think most of us concentrate on personality more than anything. It's incredibly hard to like someone who is all about their looks, or doesn't have the same/similar humour. It's also very hard to like someone who thinks they're better than other people, or is a mean person in general. Breakdancing is a pretty cool talent to have, and it definitely wouldn't be a negative.

As Ridonks_CB said, don't flaunt your skills everytime a girl walks past lol, but you can always show off your talent in the right place at the right time :)

Thanks fairy, i've learned some things from you, do you think if i showoff sometimes they'll think i'm better than them and i am too proud?

[Let Me Be a Pony]

Ouch that's a bit harsh Glossary, and slut isn't defined, it's just a generalized term meant to convey anger or dissatisfaction with a group of other people in comparison to yourself.



Generalized term? A close synonym to the word "prostitute", "wench", "parasite".
A woman who has many casual sexual partners.
http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/slut
Oxford dictionary says nothing about it being a term that conveys insult. It depends on which eyes you gaze it from.
If you do take it as an insult to feed yourself not through emotion but only from physical objects, then yes it would appear as an insult.This word is the same as "prostitute", so I guess both of them are harsh words? Harsh if they're aimed towards an innocent, aye, but in my context they were aimed towards materialistic people - the ones that do not care about your personality and only care about physical entities, such as money, your body, fast cars, etc.
Words are bigger than you think, Uniquemind. PM me on this matter, just not here for this is considered off topic.

Thanks fairy, i've learned some things from you, do you think if i showoff sometimes they'll think i'm better than them and i am too proud?

Do it once or twice, just not each time you see her or everyday.
It's good to see talent, just ain't good to rub it in the face that often.

[fairmaiden]

Thanks fairy, i've learned some things from you, do you think if i showoff sometimes they'll think i'm better than them and i am too proud?
No problem :) Well, I don't think that they'll be under the impression that you think you're better than them, but I guess it can become a bit weird if they see you doing a backflip everytime they walk past (if that makes sense lol)

Breakdancing is really cool though so I'm sure you'll find a girl that likes you :)

[Uniquemind]

Be confident in your skills but don't be a showoff deliberately.


When it's appropriate for you to show off your skills, do it, but if it's not appropriate for you to show those skills don't.


EDIT: https://youtu.be/7vP3EnMUbjc

Watch that guy Swoozie's youtube channel regarding dating and girl communication issues. He's nailed it with a humorous video after video.

He's also an example of a good guy, who is very popular with women and could probably get laid if he wanted too. Problem is he's got high standards of his own and he wants to wait until marriage before he gives up his V-card, so his own criteria limit him, but that's on him, not the girls he has attracted towards him.

Why is he popular? He's honest, but entertaining, and people can relate to him.

Myth: Girls only like bad boys and not nice guys > Debunked!

Truth: Nice guys are doing something wrong or are not doing something.