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parzzival
May 10th, 2015, 03:01 PM
Sorry if this is a bit long, I just want to get the facts out.

I am in high school and in my high school we had the chance to sign up for a field trip to a technical school to see what they had to offer. I signed up and went. There was this girl there that has confused me for ages. While I was on this trip me and this girl constantly talked,whispered to each other, and made funny jokes about things. She constantly wanted to talk and I listened. She constantly wanted to be alone and talk (not in a needy way). And one weird thing that I relay couldn't figure out, is why she always walked faster just to get in front of me. So my question here is, what is this situation? Is she just trying to be friendly or does she want something else? I personally have no idea considering I have litter no experience with girls and dating. :what:

onewingedangel666
May 10th, 2015, 04:23 PM
Ask her. Thats the best advice I can think of.
Some of us aren't lucky enough to be in these situations XD

ANd also, that's not nearly as long as many of my posts, so don't worry about it.

parzzival
May 10th, 2015, 10:56 PM
Ask her. Thats the best advice I can think of.
Some of us aren't lucky enough to be in these situations XD

ANd also, that's not nearly as long as many of my posts, so don't worry about it.

see thats the thing. I really don't want to start any thing. Because of who and what my father was, I don't ever plan on having a romantic relationship.

Uniquemind
May 10th, 2015, 11:48 PM
Just be friendly and polite to her and don't make anything of it then.

And if she confronts you about it, just say you don't want a relationship with her for with anyone because of personal reasons of why their not for you. Mentally can't handle it because of a messed up or dysfunctional childhood.

onewingedangel666
May 12th, 2015, 08:08 PM
see thats the thing. I really don't want to start any thing. Because of who and what my father was, I don't ever plan on having a romantic relationship.

I have no idea who you are or what you've gone through, but never wanting a relationship with someone just because of another person's actions, no matter how bad, is just crazy.
At least that's my opinion, feel free to disagree.

Uniquemind
May 13th, 2015, 11:22 PM
Oh let me add that I think her walking ahead of you is her attempt at being playful with you continuously.

Tesserax
May 14th, 2015, 02:36 AM
Here's the thing, there are two types of people in this world:
-People who end up like their parents
-People who end up different

You have the choice. Most don't realize it, but you can make the conscious decision to be either like or not like your parents, and you just stick to it. I have friends, and I myself have the desire to be different, and we are very different from our parents. Just trust that you'll be the same as us, and give it a go