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[DeezNuts]

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[Vermilion]

Okay so, I live with my dad, but he is absolutely homophobic and I mean rlly homophobic. If he sees a guy wearing sandals BOOM "Gay" he never says it to their face, but just talks about how gay they are. Im Bi so could never say anything about my sexuality to him I would get called every name...If you seen the "How not to act when your son tells you hes gay" video then it would be that 10×. Hes also very religious so he thinks gays get left behind im also Christian, but I know God loves everyone. Third, he hates dogs, cats, etc he talks how stupid animals are and how dumb the owners are. I always wanted a pet, but I would never say anything the closest thing to a pet I got was a state fair fish. But don't get me wrong I love my dad very much and he doesn't abuse of neglect me and hes very protective, but when he talks about gays and pets Im just think bitch shut the fuck up. One day I think Im gonna snap if he nags or insults someone one more damn time. When he says this stuff I just sit back and just say yea or fake laugh, but I just wanna punch him.[emoji36] [emoji35] [emoji55] [emoji109] [emoji34] [emoji67]

How old are you ? Don't you think if you told him it mite change his mind ?

[James Dean]

If you have religious or closed minded parents, coming out is not a good idea. I mean, I'm not saying that you can't, but I would hate for the situation to turn sour. I have seen that youtube video myself and it's really upsetting as you would think coming out to your family they would try to be non violent, physically and mentally, but it's not always fairy tale and happy.

I would suggest that when you get probably around 17/18 ish if you aren't already, sit down and talk to your father about why he thinks Christianity is against homosexuality. The bible is very contradicting, and maybe you can do more research on this. Don't necessarily tell him you're gay if you don't to, but just get to the bottom of it. Don't debate him, but try to make your side of the issue heard.

I would suggest once you are older, and maybe aren't under his wing religious wise, you can come out or tell him that you are homosexual. But you don't have to come out. Your sexuality is your business. Especially if you think he isn't going to agree with it anyways.

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