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Collinsworthington
May 9th, 2015, 10:20 AM
i've always been into girls, like probably way to much XD, ive had gf's and spend half the day hard when im around my gf and other girls. Lately iv'e been exploring a bit and have sexted one of my old friends who came out last year and it was okay i guess, i mean nothing like with chicks, but theres this one guy at my school who is gay and is really cute, we hang out sometimes and he's just so cool... i don't know if i'm emotionally attracted to him or not... i don't know if this makes me bi straight-curious or what but im just confused, i know i'll always like girls, so i know im not gay but... help plz
Jkat547
May 9th, 2015, 12:54 PM
Maybe you could ask this guy how he knew he was gay. He might be able to help. Just give it time because it will all work out. It took me a least one year to figure out and accept that I am a lesbian. It may suck to wait, but it will be worth the self discovery. Have you tried watching advice or help videos on youtube? maybe watch a few and see how you and your feelings relate to what they are saying. Good Luck
RavenR
May 17th, 2015, 05:25 AM
I think you simply need some time to understand what you are, what you like and if you are bi or not.
Personally I think that it is absolutely ok admire someone who is really cool, stylish, interesting to talk to etc. The fact you like the personality of this guy (even though he is gay) doesn´t make you bi.
Microcosm
May 17th, 2015, 12:25 PM
You seem pretty straight to me. Also, there's no point in labeling yourself. That's pretty worthless, really. But you seem straight.
paletanner
May 17th, 2015, 03:28 PM
i've always been into girls, like probably way to much XD, ive had gf's and spend half the day hard when im around my gf and other girls. Lately iv'e been exploring a bit and have sexted one of my old friends who came out last year and it was okay i guess, i mean nothing like with chicks, but theres this one guy at my school who is gay and is really cute, we hang out sometimes and he's just so cool... i don't know if i'm emotionally attracted to him or not... i don't know if this makes me bi straight-curious or what but im just confused, i know i'll always like girls, so i know im not gay but... help plz
the way i see it either you want to do something with a guy or you don't, but that doesn't mean you're gay. but if you have a girlfriend you should be faithful to her and not sleep around. anyways i hope that helps.
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