Aidoon123
May 8th, 2015, 03:57 PM
So...
A guy who is a year older than me, likes me. He is your typical 'sporty person' he is slim, athletic, lots of friends, good looking and has a good social life. I know he likes me because he is always wanting me to go over to his place, whenever we are over there he always finds an excuse to bring me up to the bedroom even when he are alone, and he leaves the windows open so it's 'cold' and then he will lie under the covers and ask me to go with him, and if I do, he'll then proceed to spoon me. This uhhn freaks me out a bit, so I just kinda lie there on my phone texting people and doing stuff on apps. When I leave he'll text me saying something like ''was fun today, maybe next time we can do more'' with a wink face.
Anyway.. my reason for coming on here is I honestly don't know how to feel about this guy. Recently, we were texting and he openly admitted he was gay, and that he has had LOADS of boyfriends. He has done the whole thing all the way up to 'it'. Firstly, this really worries me because to be frank, I don't know where he has been. I know that sounds odd, but what if he has something? Not that I think he is stupid enough to get an STI and go unprotected, but he is a person who does the whole 'wild weekend' party thing which means drinking, making out with random people and most probably some type of drugs, which is the polar opposite to me who has never drank in his life (don't plan to) same with drugs, and also is a virgin and has only ever done stuff with girls. Also, whenever he is around me he acts really weird, to the point in my head where I am like ''why are you being such a freak when I am around'' he'll make all these weird noises to get my attention, and do all these weird body movements. I can't really describe it, but trust me it is weird.
He comes to the house nearby where his dad lives, so I can see him from my house on the weekends. When he is around his friends, he is completely docile and just acts like a normal 17yr old, but when around me he acts like something from the Exorcism. I kinda like him I guess, and I am tempted to see where it might go if we tried something, but the way he acts around me, and the lifestyle he has just puts me off. He has admitted to giving another guy a BJ at a party when drunk, while his boyfriend was in the other room. Someone who does that can't be trusted, but he says it was a long time ago, and he has changed.
I don't know what to think, or do. He is around again this weekend and has invited me over. He is surely going to try to do his usual spooning thing, but he has never made a full move yet so I think I might have to do it if I want to see where it goes, but I am so confused if I even want to see this go anywhere. Please help me guys, my brain is fizzled and I am in serious need of advice, because it could be the best choice, or the biggest mistake I make in a long while. :what::what:
A guy who is a year older than me, likes me. He is your typical 'sporty person' he is slim, athletic, lots of friends, good looking and has a good social life. I know he likes me because he is always wanting me to go over to his place, whenever we are over there he always finds an excuse to bring me up to the bedroom even when he are alone, and he leaves the windows open so it's 'cold' and then he will lie under the covers and ask me to go with him, and if I do, he'll then proceed to spoon me. This uhhn freaks me out a bit, so I just kinda lie there on my phone texting people and doing stuff on apps. When I leave he'll text me saying something like ''was fun today, maybe next time we can do more'' with a wink face.
Anyway.. my reason for coming on here is I honestly don't know how to feel about this guy. Recently, we were texting and he openly admitted he was gay, and that he has had LOADS of boyfriends. He has done the whole thing all the way up to 'it'. Firstly, this really worries me because to be frank, I don't know where he has been. I know that sounds odd, but what if he has something? Not that I think he is stupid enough to get an STI and go unprotected, but he is a person who does the whole 'wild weekend' party thing which means drinking, making out with random people and most probably some type of drugs, which is the polar opposite to me who has never drank in his life (don't plan to) same with drugs, and also is a virgin and has only ever done stuff with girls. Also, whenever he is around me he acts really weird, to the point in my head where I am like ''why are you being such a freak when I am around'' he'll make all these weird noises to get my attention, and do all these weird body movements. I can't really describe it, but trust me it is weird.
He comes to the house nearby where his dad lives, so I can see him from my house on the weekends. When he is around his friends, he is completely docile and just acts like a normal 17yr old, but when around me he acts like something from the Exorcism. I kinda like him I guess, and I am tempted to see where it might go if we tried something, but the way he acts around me, and the lifestyle he has just puts me off. He has admitted to giving another guy a BJ at a party when drunk, while his boyfriend was in the other room. Someone who does that can't be trusted, but he says it was a long time ago, and he has changed.
I don't know what to think, or do. He is around again this weekend and has invited me over. He is surely going to try to do his usual spooning thing, but he has never made a full move yet so I think I might have to do it if I want to see where it goes, but I am so confused if I even want to see this go anywhere. Please help me guys, my brain is fizzled and I am in serious need of advice, because it could be the best choice, or the biggest mistake I make in a long while. :what::what: