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Goatzbro
May 7th, 2015, 09:37 PM
I feel like I can't successfully interact to any of the girls that I want to spend time with, especially those who I have romantic feelings for. I have been practicing socializing and working out personality flaws for a couple of years. However, whenever I talk to a girl, even if I am really smooth and seem like I am completely normal, they still sense that something is wrong and just push me away. This keeps happening and I really don't want to go back to the place that I was a few months ago, where I blame it all on biology; I am simply too unattractive to actually get a girl. Either this, or I have failed to meet girls with any of the same interests as me, which is quite unlikely. Therefore, it is one of two options. Either I am just a horrible person to be around, or I am just an ugly looking guy.
I go to a small school, and most everybody in my grade knows me and all of my failures. Any tips on how to get around this? I feel like I am just getting lonelier and lonelier and nothing that I do seems to work. I really don't want to relapse into any old behaviors. All advice is much appreciated. Thank you.

Tunero
May 11th, 2015, 01:07 AM
Lol, nothings wrong with you, just try to do things that'll make girls want you.

Karson
May 11th, 2015, 02:57 AM
Man you're really hard on you haven't scored a girl yet and as far as your concerned it must be only because you're so horrible.

You say you go to a small school. Ever think that the dating pool there is small, and your type just isn't there? It happens. Has nothing to do with being a bad person.

But you'll take anybody right now, right? She doesn't need to be your soal mate. Okay, fine. But in that case, since you're just not taking it so serious, then why be so serious? Why get so wound up and right around the girls there? Just relax! I bet once you do that they'll start to see another side of you and probably start to like it. Not the wound up intense guy who's so serious about everything.