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cobas1
May 7th, 2015, 09:14 PM
I am a marine and me and my girl have been dating for a year and three months now but of those 15 months we have only been physically together for 5 months and a week here and there. Im madly in love with her but lately my horny 18 year old brain has been wanted find other means of satisfying the urge. I just want to know if its normal o would never cheat on her but i never thought the thought would cross my mind and definatly as much as it has lately.
James Dean
May 8th, 2015, 12:27 AM
Did you guys talk about this before you left? Usually people that go through something like this, they decide to either temporarily break up because both of you are far away from each other. I mean, you made a commitment to be in that relationship with her, and if you do cheat, that is going to make things worse.

Can you call and speak to her on the phone?
cobas1
May 8th, 2015, 03:03 PM
Did you guys talk about this before you left? Usually people that go through something like this, they decide to either temporarily break up because both of you are far away from each other. I mean, you made a commitment to be in that relationship with her, and if you do cheat, that is going to make things worse.

Can you call and speak to her on the phone?

We talk all the time i love you to death its just the physical aspect of the relationship that i am lacking. When we are together we fuck like rabbits ots just not seeing her for 4 or more months at a time and whe i do see her its for just a week of that
PennyRoyalTea
May 8th, 2015, 03:30 PM
Do you think she might be feeling the same way? If so, suggest and open relationship while you guys aren't in each others proximity. If not, then I guess you're gonna have to bite the bullet with this one and consult your "right hand man" if you catch my drift. If you love her enough you can power through it. Whatever you do, don't cheat on her, it creates a whole disballence in trust and you could be living day to day wishing you didn't. Good luck!
cobas1
May 10th, 2015, 07:08 PM
I should be getting a car within 2 weeks so. I will be able to see my girlfriend on the weekends. I will just have to make the 7 hour road trip.
Karson
May 10th, 2015, 09:43 PM
I'd make the trip. BuT is there anyway she can come see you?
cobas1
May 15th, 2015, 10:26 PM
Nope she cant. But im going to see her next weekend
RavenR
May 17th, 2015, 05:00 AM
well, you are not the only person on earth who has physical needs. it is more than normal. But having sex with someone else would mean cheating on your gf. There can be no other name to it or no excuse. So if you love her, you definitely shall wait, in the end it will only make your relationship stronger.