losing your virginity

[jenni31]

I hope this is okay with administrators but I don't really know what to do when it comes to having sex with a boy or another girl in losing your virginity. I've done other things with some boys and definitely with some girls as I'm bi. I do not know what to expect an I know I have kind of a boyfriend and he's been pressuring me to go all the way an one of my girlfriends who her and I kind of pull around I would love to have sex with her so whoever has experienced this could you tell me what to expect....it's hard to wait.....and hopefully we will not break any rules with the VT. thank you very much

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Jenny what you and any girlfriends do I would not consider the same a what happens between you and a boyfriend as far as your losing your virginity goes.
But Jenny never let anyone pressure you in to losing your virginity as it's something you can never get back, it's your body you are in control. Hope all works out for you. :) XX

[devon girl]

what to expect? well its kindof impossble to say tbh (sorry) but also dont let them tell u what to do just do it whenever u feel ready

[jenni31]

I guess what I am asking is what does it feel like when a guy enters you because I still have my hymen intact and I don't know what to expect when having anything up inside me

[Abbeys]

I'm puzzled as to why you don't google it.

I done this female first sex and got


461.000.000 results!

[jenni31]

Hi Abbey. Awsum idea but was looking more towards personal experiences here on VT

[Abbeys]

Hi Abbey. Awsum idea but was looking more towards personal experiences here on VT


Makes sense now.

XXX

[neledisapersonne]

it hurts at first they say :)

[jenni31]

thank you Abbeys because I tried to hold out as long as possible but my hormones are still kicking in and when I'm out on a date usually with another girl but I've gone out lately with a couple of guys its like I want to lose my virginity I want to feel like what's like to have a penis inside of me or have another girls pussy rubbing against mine and googlemail explain it all but I want to hear from people who have experienced this and what is truly truly like and whether I should do it or not or just hold out because usually when I go out on a date I am so horny I hate the guy usually I let him finger me but usually through my panties so there's no slip inside and with the girls the same thing..

For nele...I forgot a few people that hurt when a guys dick goes to your stretches at your hymen and then from there it feels good and if I have sex all the way with a guy I want him to cum inside of me and feel him I mean really feel his cum inside of me but I'm afraid to get pregnant and any STD 2 I'm not sure if I would like condoms or not and feeling. On a guy for the first time if that makes sense and I don't have any birth control at the moment because I really don't have a sister.....I just don't and my mom I can't confide in at all

[Uniquemind]

thank you Abbeys because I tried to hold out as long as possible but my hormones are still kicking in and when I'm out on a date usually with another girl but I've gone out lately with a couple of guys its like I want to lose my virginity I want to feel like what's like to have a penis inside of me or have another girls pussy rubbing against mine and googlemail explain it all but I want to hear from people who have experienced this and what is truly truly like and whether I should do it or not or just hold out because usually when I go out on a date I am so horny I hate the guy usually I let him finger me but usually through my panties so there's no slip inside and with the girls the same thing..

For nele...I forgot a few people that hurt when a guys dick goes to your stretches at your hymen and then from there it feels good and if I have sex all the way with a guy I want him to cum inside of me and feel him I mean really feel his cum inside of me but I'm afraid to get pregnant and any STD 2 I'm not sure if I would like condoms or not and feeling. On a guy for the first time if that makes sense and I don't have any birth control at the moment because I really don't have a sister.....I just don't and my mom I can't confide in at all

It's against forum rules to tell stories if that's what your looking for.


But NEVER EVER have sex without protection and without really liking/loving the guy.

How you feel about a guy directly impacts what the sex will feel like physically because thoughts mess up what our minds see as pleasurable or uncomfortable. Also in cases where it physically feels good, the mind still has to also be in a state not to feel massive guilt and instead accept the physical pleasure happening to them. (I.e. Situations of orgasm when raped, it happens and is a large source of trauma for those who have been raped).


If you need the sensation of penetration get a sex toy.


But penetration is like the sensation of making a fist and then sticking a finger into the fist between the palm and where the fingers curl into the palm...only you feel that feeling in the lower half of your body. The first few inches in the vaginal canal get the most sensation and the rest of it is just a slight stretch sensations. Hopefully it's wet down there too so the friction is there but a nice friction not a harsh dry one.

I recommend 1 hour of foreplay is mandatory before anything else happens. Problem is I don't think many guys know what good foreplay is. I think they think it's just some hugs, kisses, rubbing of the body and bam foreplay accomplished....no just no.

I think foreplay happens all the way at the stage of a flirtationship and that's all verbal.

[SarahFox]

This is my personal view... I was very sexual as soon as I hit puberty. No kidding, I was 11 and masterbating 4 or 5 times a day.

I decided to do something about it and I lost my virginity to a boy at my 12th birthday party. Bad experience (painful) but was such a weight of my shoulders!! :lol: since then Ive been having sex regularly with boys & girls, not because any one is making me but because I simply love it. :yes: I protect myself against STDs and pregnancy, thank GOD my Mom gave me 'the Talk' early on!

My point is youll know when its time to lose it. NEVER do it under pressure, only when YOU want to, and be patient b/c its not much fun the first time. Just keep trying until you get it right !!! Good luck.

[Emerald Dream]

OP banned. :locked: