Relationship problems

[Tom01098]

So I don't really know how well I can explain this.

I'm 14 years old, and 2 days ago, I had a girlfriend. I've suffered with depression for a large part of my life and she made me really happy.

Two days ago she called me in tears, saying that she didn't really love me anymore, and that she hopes we could be friends.

It's so difficult to still love her so much and know she doesn't love me, and at the same time I'm being pressured into being around her and not loving her.

This sounded so much better in my head.

-Tom01098

[Vermilion]

I've been in the same situation, I end up going long as friend's for a month or 2 then told her I couldn't be friends cos I stilled loved her. We don't talk anymore it's a lot easier that way. Plus when I told her I had depression she thought I was blaming her, she hates me now but I'm happier

[Tom01098]

I guess it's more that I love her and she likes me as a friend, rather than her loving me like I do her.

[Vermilion]

I guess it's more that I love her and she likes me as a friend, rather than her loving me like I do her.

So what is it you want ?

[Tom01098]

I just want to go back a week or so, and live as happy as I was then with her.

[Vermilion]

I just want to go back a week or so, and live as happy as I was then with her.

So you still want her as your gf ?

[Tom01098]

Yeah I do, desperately. It's just that she doesn't, and it hurts even more because she used to.

[Vermilion]

Yeah I do, desperately. It's just that she doesn't, and it hurts even more because she used to.

I now the feeling, but I found the only way i got over her was not to have contact with her. If she doesn't want you you have to move on

[Tom01098]

Thanks man

[Vermilion]

Thanks man

Np happy to help :) don't jus take my advice wait for more people to reply

[mrjc]

its hard when one person just wants friendship, I agree seeing her all the time will make it worse. it will take time mate but you will be fine