For girls, is there such a thing as too big?

[ultramagnum11]

Ok so this is a serious question i'd like to get more girls' opinions about. I've had a few instances where girls haven't wanted to have sex or have stopped halfway thru. They have said that I was too big and it hurt too much or when they found out how big I was they said they didn't want a loose vagina and wanted to keep it tight.
Now I understand the hurting issue, which can be worked around, but the loose vagina kinda sounds like bs lol. idk, i'd like some feedback...

[BlackParadePixie]

It probably is bs. One big cock isn't going to turn a girl into a size queen. They were probably just saying that as an excuse because they were too afraid it was going to hurt.

[biancachica]

Ok so this is a serious question i'd like to get more girls' opinions about. I've had a few instances where girls haven't wanted to have sex or have stopped halfway thru. They have said that I was too big and it hurt too much or when they found out how big I was they said they didn't want a loose vagina and wanted to keep it tight.
Now I understand the hurting issue, which can be worked around, but the loose vagina kinda sounds like bs lol. idk, i'd like some feedback...

How big are you? But yes there is a too big. Personally I am quite tight, to the point that even average penises feel too big for me so I cant imagine a big one. But like you said, you can work with that. However Im pretty sure a penis cannot make you loose. The vagina is like a muscle so it can stretch but it can also tighten.

[Taryn98]

A women's vagina can have a baby come out of it and still return to it's normal size.

[Uniquemind]

"Too big" varies from girl to girl and how tall the girl is has no baring on what she can take vaginally and assume for the sake of discussion all girls are at maximum level of mental and physical arousal and at least 1 hour of foreplay took place.


Like others have said the vagina is a muscle so it can get out of shape...but it can also get in-shape if she keeps it toned and exercises it.

For the best sexual responses in a girl's lifetime she should do Kegel exercises regularly as part of any workout routine for the rest of her body and health.

Most girls can take 6-7 inches long and 3 inches girth no problem though.


You can start seeing problems with anything 8-12 inches long, and problems with girth around 5-7+ inch range.

But some girls like a mix of that discomfort stuffed feeling, but most do not like it, those that do have a small fetish for pain in my humble opinion and possibly a submissive streak in them psychologically.

[Daniella98]

There is a point where the joy of a penis turns from normal pleasure to another kind of pleasure, which many girls don't like.

But about the loose/tight statement its bs

[Uniquemind]

There is a point where the joy of a penis turns from normal pleasure to another kind of pleasure, which many girls don't like.

But about the loose/tight statement its bs

Just out of curiosity, do you agree with my statement??

I think we're replying the same answer to the OP but I'm not sure.

[Daniella98]

Just out of curiosity, do you agree with my statement??

I think we're replying the same answer to the OP but I'm not sure.

Yes we agree :-)

[ultramagnum11]

How big are you? But yes there is a too big. Personally I am quite tight, to the point that even average penises feel too big for me so I cant imagine a big one. But like you said, you can work with that. However Im pretty sure a penis cannot make you loose. The vagina is like a muscle so it can stretch but it can also tighten.

Thanks for the input... I'm 8" long 6.5" around

[devon girl]

after a while girls do get looseer than what they were but its more bs tbh

[hockeyfan]

Ask the girls if they ever plan on having kids

[biancachica]

Thanks for the input... I'm 8" long 6.5" around

Ya thats really big... I understand why the girls couldnt take it.

[hannaszabo]

I agree with biancachica, it seems to be very big, but believe me a lot of girls will enjoy it, esspecially when you will have older girls.

[Uniquemind]

I agree with biancachica, it seems to be very big, but believe me a lot of girls will enjoy it, esspecially when you will have older girls.

I don't think age really matters in of itself. Perhaps the hormone levels matter, but I think that's more individualistic to a woman by woman basis.

Ya thats really big... I understand why the girls couldnt take it.


Yeah I agree with Bianca. That's really big, particularly the girth which can't be helped much.

In terms of length at least guys have the option to not use all of it. That's more within their control...but girth....that's a take it or leave it choice...literally.

[jenni31]

hi yes with a guy with a big cock and specially girth are vaginas get really stretched and they stay that way forever and then we have bigger and bigger baby that we can deliver some up to 40 and 50 pounds lol yes I'm just teasing I'm sorry all the girls what they have said is very true on vaginas could be stressed out and then get back to normal within a short time especially doing Kegel exercises. It really depends on the girl herself I I still have not had a cock inside of me or really anything and I'm fairly tight. I've been hconsidering trying to sleep with us one guy and I've given him a few handjob and a couple of blowjobs before but he is about six and a half inches and has a 3 inch girth...so I don't know how it's going to feel inside of me when I'm ready and how it's going to feel when his cock hits my hymen. but your girth seems really really big and for most of us would feel very uncomfortable and probably most of us would love to play with that and give you a handjob or maybe a blow job but having your cock inside her pussy's would really hurt. but there are some girls who would say absolutely its just finding the right girl but please from a girls standpoint, if you try to enter her vagina and she says no then please pull back...and do not force yourself on her because both of you at the time are at your highest point of arousal but she is going to be the one who says no it's not your vagina it's our vaginas

[ultramagnum11]

Thanks for all the input so far. I know the vaginal stretches, also I would never continue if she says no. I was more curious about responses of being scared. I've had a girl or two be too scared to take it vaginally but have no problem if it makes them gag orally...just find it a bit odd....

[Uniquemind]

Oral's a different story the mouth can be opened pretty wide because obviously the jaw joint exists where for the vagina that's a pure elastic muscle stretch.

As long as you aren't jamming it down her throat, you shouldn't be causing the same fear in girls that way. But if the penis starts to enter the throat/esophagus some girls will freak out about oral too, especially with that 6.5 inch girth.

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I also need to add that the girls who stopped sex with you because they were afraid of being stretched and loose in a permanent way, are misinformed about the female body.

Just goes to show there are a lot of false myths we young people (maybe older people believe this too based on what I hear on late night comedy?) still believe.


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I will say that one of my female friends told me that when she dated a big guy around the same size as the OP's measurements.

Her body was able to take it, and after constant sex multiple times a day for a few months, her body adjusted to just take it and it wasn't a problem but to get to that point took a lot of work, time, and patience. ( and lubrication)


When they broke up she said it took some time ( a week or so) and she snapped back to her right size before she dated that guy.


The vagina's a muscle just like the calves and thighs. Work em out keep em toned.

[ultramagnum11]

Any other opinions? I appreciate all the feedback, wondering if there's anymore differing opinions out there...

[hannaszabo]

I am still a virgin, but can ask some of my gf's for you, if you would like.

[ultramagnum11]

I am still a virgin, but can ask some of my gf's for you, if you would like.

That would be great :)

[PicklasNoulsen]

I really think it's because they were to scared. Since you are so well-equipped maybe use lube when you have sex, that will also show the girl that you care about her. But I most say I'm really jealous of you size, but big props for caring about the girl and not just your own pleasure bro

[SkyClad33605]

It sounds like there wasn't enough foreplay. If you just dive right to sex problems can occur.

[murray]

Agree with skyclad. I'm a little over 8 long and about 6.5 around as well, and I always make a point of going down for a long, long time. But then again, I love going down, soo... :P

[kayla...]

I think tightness is genetic and muscular - women can squeeze babies out and be super tight again

[kayla...]

My brothers friend was what I'd say was too big For his technique/style
I'm sure as big as him could be really nice if slow n gentle but pounding u fast is agony

[everby]

8 inches is big, but still normal

[Laibachd]

yes it's very big (be proud xd), but i don't think it's really a no-can-do size! ^^

[underwateruber]

Aaahhh, damn, I'm 8.5" and 4.5"