My BF and I totally broken up for good!!

[rachel_ballet]

So my BF and I have been broken up for about 6 days!! This time it's for good!
At first, it was in a shock as I caught him with his new neighbor, who I found out later was some 15 year old Russian girl that had apparently just moved in next door to him!
But I caught them both in his garage. I won't say what they were doing, but I will say that she wasn't on her knees praying! And I had just seen him like 36 hours before that! WTF????
It's one thing for a new neighbor to come by and ask for a cup of sugar, but to ask for a wiener is a whole other issue! LOL!
And the reason I found out so much about her is that one day after I caught them, she shows up at my ballet class as a new student! And when our ballet instructor told us about her, she pretty much told us everything about her with the exception of her panty size! LOL! And her name is Yana! What a stupid ass name! Yana?
Go have your new BF buy you some Vodka, you commie!
My ballet instructor asked me, as she usually does with the new students, if I would help her! I replied with "f**k no!' and a few other things! I got suspended from class for a week, which on top of every other thing, I had to explain it all to my parents. Of course , not everything! I usually do help out with tutoring the new students, but once I saw that it was her, I was like no f**king way! It was soo funny cause she didn't even recognize me! And she was there thinking she was all that with her high dollar leotard and high dollar ballet shoes!! She totally stood out!
I did have a talk with my aunt, who is also my home school teacher and very cool with me, and she took me to the health department and had a pregnancy test and std test. The pregnancy test was negative, and I'm still waiting on the std test.
But as promised, I wouldn't come on here and whine and cry and bitch and piss and moan! That's why I waited for a few days to pass before I posted on here!
At first, yes I was like really freakin upset cause it wasn't like hey were just talking, but it was what I caught them doing!
So, I'm cool, single and enjoying my life!
Hell yeah!!!!
To quote Taylor Swift
"I gotta blank space, baby, and I'll write your name!"
Not really looking to get in to another relationship right now, but we shall what happens!!
I'm gonna enjoy my summer as a single girl! And in the fall, I'm going back to public school! And whatever happens between now and then happens!!
I'll never go back to that him no matter what!
As I stated before, he with some Brazilian girl! Wait until some pretty blue eyed Italian girl comes along and steals him away from HER! I'm actually glad it ended this way! I've seen his true colors and have seen that he only uses girls to get he wants!! And then he moves on! Another pretty face!

[Dying Ember]

Well... I'm glad you finally realised

[rachel_ballet]

And if she ever starts sh*t with me, she'll get a kick in the crotch and a punch in the face!
What a commie? Both of them!
My BFF Sarah goes to public school and it'll interesting if they end up in the same school, although I doubt it with school almost over! I'll see her at the bus stop in the fall, I guess!
What a b***h!

[Dying Ember]

And if she ever starts sh*t with me, she'll get a kick in the crotch and a punch in the face!
What a commie? Both of them!
My BFF Sarah goes to public school and it'll interesting if they end up in the same school, although I doubt it with school almost over! I'll see her at the bus stop in the fall, I guess!
What a b***h!

What if she was under the same impression as you, that he was faithful and loyal and only dating her? This guy seems like the type of person to have a trail of people, he obviously didn't just have one

[rachel_ballet]

I'm not about to befriend this girl!
Of course after everything I've said, no one will probably be her friend at dance! It's sad cause it's not really her fault!
She'll just have to find out the way we all have!
He's a total jerk off! Maybe he needs to spend more time doing that!
I just can't understand how he can just meet a girl and instantly get a .......you know!
Something tells me that they had something going on long before I caught them and that makes me even more pissed off!

[WanderingHeart]

What a douche.

We told you he wasn't any good, but I'm not gonna scold ya.

Screw it, you just go and enjoy your summer as a free, single girl. Alright?

[SethfromMI]

there was something wrong with that guy in the beginning. to be that old and dating only under age girls...yea, hopefully it is truly over forever between you and him

[Melodic]

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm glad you're taking this well though!

[Uniquemind]

So my BF and I have been broken up for about 6 days!! This time it's for good!
At first, it was in a shock as I caught him with his new neighbor, who I found out later was some 15 year old Russian girl that had apparently just moved in next door to him!
But I caught them both in his garage. I won't say what they were doing, but I will say that she wasn't on her knees praying! And I had just seen him like 36 hours before that! WTF????
It's one thing for a new neighbor to come by and ask for a cup of sugar, but to ask for a wiener is a whole other issue! LOL!
And the reason I found out so much about her is that one day after I caught them, she shows up at my ballet class as a new student! And when our ballet instructor told us about her, she pretty much told us everything about her with the exception of her panty size! LOL! And her name is Yana! What a stupid ass name! Yana?
Go have your new BF buy you some Vodka, you commie!
My ballet instructor asked me, as she usually does with the new students, if I would help her! I replied with "f**k no!' and a few other things! I got suspended from class for a week, which on top of every other thing, I had to explain it all to my parents. Of course , not everything! I usually do help out with tutoring the new students, but once I saw that it was her, I was like no f**king way! It was soo funny cause she didn't even recognize me! And she was there thinking she was all that with her high dollar leotard and high dollar ballet shoes!! She totally stood out!
I did have a talk with my aunt, who is also my home school teacher and very cool with me, and she took me to the health department and had a pregnancy test and std test. The pregnancy test was negative, and I'm still waiting on the std test.
But as promised, I wouldn't come on here and whine and cry and bitch and piss and moan! That's why I waited for a few days to pass before I posted on here!
At first, yes I was like really freakin upset cause it wasn't like hey were just talking, but it was what I caught them doing!
So, I'm cool, single and enjoying my life!
Hell yeah!!!!
To quote Taylor Swift
"I gotta blank space, baby, and I'll write your name!"
Not really looking to get in to another relationship right now, but we shall what happens!!
I'm gonna enjoy my summer as a single girl! And in the fall, I'm going back to public school! And whatever happens between now and then happens!!
I'll never go back to that him no matter what!
As I stated before, he with some Brazilian girl! Wait until some pretty blue eyed Italian girl comes along and steals him away from HER! I'm actually glad it ended this way! I've seen his true colors and have seen that he only uses girls to get he wants!! And then he moves on! Another pretty face!

See...if you had only listened to our warnings.

I profiled your ex-BF right, he's a player and probably has a thing for deflowering girls.

His playground is your ballet class/institution.

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I would befriend Yana though, it's less her fault and more him.
In fact by not warning her, you letting HIM have more pussy success.

Warn her, and if Yana shrugs off your warning like you shrugged off ours, the blame is all hers.

[Seahawks15]

What a total jerk! Definitely a player! And if he is dating underage girls and committing sexual acts with them,one could just speak up and his a** will be in the slammer! So sorry you had to deal with this slop.Continue listening to rowdy Taylor Swift songs and forget about that weirdo!

[Hudor]

Good that you broke up with him. It would be best of that creep would be behind the bars for preying on young girls.

[fairmaiden]

Well. He certainly is a serial offender.

He is sick, and messed up. 23 year old dating young teenagers? That is disgusting.

Oh well, at least you're not dating him anymore.

[hithere14]

Your ex sounds like a legend

[Left Now]

rachel_ballet.

First of all why are you making fun of your ex-BF's new GF's name?Only because your ex-BF abandoned you and went to her?Please do not act like immature teenager girls,because you are not one,respectfully,and you are insulting yourself with acting like them.

Second,I do not mean to completely blame you for what has happened,the major part of it is on your women-as-tool-for-satisfying-his-desires-wanter ex-BF;but you acted carelessly in having a relationship with him.Still,even for a little part,you have to be blamed for what has happened for yourself too.

Anyway,I hope this experience does not happen for you once again.Good Luck.

[Ridonks_CB]

Well, I'm glad you finally broke up with him. We're telling ya, it's for the better. I hope things go better for you this summer.

[Beth]

I'm not going to say we told you so, but instead wish you the best of love in the future. I'm sure one day you will find someone you can trust and love full heartily without any doubt in mind and at heart. Faith is what you must keep as I have overflowing faith that my love will find me one day.

[rachel_ballet]

Still suffering a lot of issues with the whole break up and that I caught him cheating!
I'm not the prettiest girl, and that's why I never posted my pic on here! I'm 4'8" and 120 lbs! Not your picture perfect ballerina type, but I do very well with my dancing! I thought he saw through all of my ugliness and loved me for who I am! After seeing her, I guess not!
She's sooo pretty!
But my question is this!
What do I do with all of the gifts that he gave me?
It's a lot of expensive jewelry, and I don't wanna just throw it away! The stuffed animals I'll donate to a local thrift store! And of course the bra and panty sets he bought me I'm not sure what to do with!
I was doing really good until tonight! Part of me wants to go knee him in the balls, and the other part of me wants to go hold him and beg for him to take me back!

[SethfromMI]

Still suffering a lot of issues with the whole break up and that I caught him cheating!
I'm not the prettiest girl, and that's why I never posted my pic on here! I'm 4'8" and 120 lbs! Not your picture perfect ballerina type, but I do very well with my dancing! I thought he saw through all of my ugliness and loved me for who I am! After seeing her, I guess not!
She's sooo pretty!
But my question is this!
What do I do with all of the gifts that he gave me?
It's a lot of expensive jewelry, and I don't wanna just throw it away! The stuffed animals I'll donate to a local thrift store! And of course the bra and panty sets he bought me I'm not sure what to do with!
I was doing really good until tonight! Part of me wants to go knee him in the balls, and the other part of me wants to go hold him and beg for him to take me back!

do not go back to him. no, no, no, No!

donate and give away what you want, keep or sell the rest . it is up to you what you want to do with it

[Beth]

Still suffering a lot of issues with the whole break up and that I caught him cheating!
I'm not the prettiest girl, and that's why I never posted my pic on here! I'm 4'8" and 120 lbs! Not your picture perfect ballerina type, but I do very well with my dancing! I thought he saw through all of my ugliness and loved me for who I am! After seeing her, I guess not!
She's sooo pretty!
But my question is this!
What do I do with all of the gifts that he gave me?
It's a lot of expensive jewelry, and I don't wanna just throw it away! The stuffed animals I'll donate to a local thrift store! And of course the bra and panty sets he bought me I'm not sure what to do with!
I was doing really good until tonight! Part of me wants to go knee him in the balls, and the other part of me wants to go hold him and beg for him to take me back!
He wasn't looking at your beauty or ugliness but only looking at your vulnerability to groom you to use you for sex. He got what he want so now he has moved on to other young girls. Please , please don't go back to him. Theres a saying around some guys at my school stating this. Find them,feel them,f--k them and forget them.may I say not all boys are like that. And for the items and gifts that you have received get rid of them so temptation of going back to him doesn't tempt you.

[Uniquemind]

He wasn't looking at your beauty or ugliness but only looking at your vulnerability to groom you to use you for sex. He got what he want so now he has moved on to other young girls. Please , please don't go back to him. Theres a saying around some guys at my school stating this. Find them,feel them,f--k them and forget them.may I say not all boys are like that. And for the items and gifts that you have received get rid of them so temptation of going back to him doesn't tempt you.

Sadly I hear that "find them, feel them, f--k them, and forget them" saying at my school too.


I wouldn't sell em to a thrift store, I'd just outright donate them provided their is no personal identifying information on any tags on the items.


I'd keep the jewels and sell it to help pay for college though. At the end of the day they're just fancy rocks, and any sentimental value is a mind game.


I suspected this from the beginning since a former post where it was clear he wasn't going to wait for you to be older before dating you.

But I think he specifically gets a thrill out of knowing he's taking a girl's virginity.

[Ridonks_CB]

At first, it was in a shock as I caught him with his new neighbor, who I found out later was some 15 year old Russian girl that had apparently just moved in next door to him!
But I caught them both in his garage. I won't say what they were doing, but I will say that she wasn't on her knees praying! And I had just seen him like 36 hours before that! WTF????


Wait, something I'm a bit confused about. How'd you catch them exactly; I wouldn't think they'd allow themselves to openly in plain sight do anything in the garage.

[Hudor]

do not go back to him. no, no, no, No!

donate and give away what you want, keep or sell the rest . it is up to you what you want to do with it

This ^^

Wait, something I'm a bit confused about. How'd you catch them exactly; I wouldn't think they'd allow themselves to openly in plain sight do anything in the garage.

I was also wondering about that.

[Uniquemind]

I don't think it's that much of a mystery.

My neighbors always kept a spare key under the mat to access their garage via a side door to take care of their pets when they were on vacation.

Lots of people do, even though I think that defeats the point of locked doors but whatever.

[StarSan]

I offer no advice or condolences unfortunately, as past experience tells me they fall upon deaf ears.

I do hope however that perhaps now you'll actually listen to people with more experience who are only trying to help. You are lucky to not be pregnant, and will be very lucky if the other comes back negative. That will be fun to explain to future partners. But I'm not trying to be mean here. Just remember what I said in a previous post of mine. Mature for your age at 14 is not the same as mature for your age at even 19. And I'm not even that mature if we're being honest haha. But experience has taught me a bit more.

Now. I'm going to make a liar out of myself and offer advice because maybe now you'll listen. In the future, one, find someone within your age group. Personally I can barely tolerate a 3 year difference. 2,1, or none is best. And two, take things slower next time. Remember. Sex is a privilege not a right. You're worth waiting for. And if they don't think so they aren't worth the time you spend on them.

[Pat the Bunny]

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Shouldn't you tell the girl? I get that you're angry, but maybe she didn't know about you, and she also got screwed over. I find it hard to believe that if she knew he was cheating she would still have sex with him.

[WanderingHeart]

Sadly I hear that "find them, feel them, f--k them, and forget them" saying at my school too.


I wouldn't sell em to a thrift store, I'd just outright donate them provided their is no personal identifying information on any tags on the items.


I'd keep the jewels and sell it to help pay for college though. At the end of the day they're just fancy rocks, and any sentimental value is a mind game.


I suspected this from the beginning since a former post where it was clear he wasn't going to wait for you to be older before dating you.

But I think he specifically gets a thrill out of knowing he's taking a girl's virginity.

That's a really disgusting saying. What a disappointment to humanity.

Anyway, DO NOT GO BACK TO HIM!!! That will not help you at ALL! You can do sooo much better than him, believe me.

[Uniquemind]

That's a really disgusting saying. What a disappointment to humanity.

Anyway, DO NOT GO BACK TO HIM!!! That will not help you at ALL! You can do sooo much better than him, believe me.


Guys better watch out though, because someday they might cross the wrong girl with that mantra.

Then another F might be added representing the famous line from Street Fighter "Finish Him!"

Not saying I would do that, but in all truth some people do crazy things when jilted in romance.

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Although to be fair I know a few girls who go through boys like toys as well. But they don't go deceiving them for a relationship then drop them. They're just pretty direct with the guys about what they want.

It's just the guys don't seem to mind that much. They disassociate the sex act from real love more easily than girls do.

The only guys these girls drop though are "clingers".

[Karson]

That's good that happened. Because now you know you're not missing anything and he's a loser.

[Stronk Serb]

Don't go back to him. Also that girl isn't to blame. She was manipulated into this just like you. Oh well... just don't go back to him. He's a sex offender obviously.

[rachel_ballet]

Thanks for all of the feedback!
All the tests came back and I am clean and not pregnant!
I actually made friends with Yana tonight at ballet class. She's really cool and I made it a point not to bring HIM up. We talked about ballet and classical music and stuff like that.

[Uniquemind]

Thanks for all of the feedback!
All the tests came back and I am clean and not pregnant!
I actually made friends with Yana tonight at ballet class. She's really cool and I made it a point not to bring HIM up. We talked about ballet and classical music and stuff like that.

That's cool of you I guess.

Although if you get to know her a bit better and can have the courage to bring him up. I'd urge you to give her a warning and a vague description of how HE deceived you and warn Yana to watch her back, and if anything happened have her come run to you and your group of friends for support.

Girls need to stick together when they share a common jerk in their social lives, and that jerk has showed their true colors to all of you.

[Babs]

I actually made friends with Yana tonight at ballet class. She's really cool and I made it a point not to bring HIM up. We talked about ballet and classical music and stuff like that.

Perhaps take this as a lesson not to judge people before you know them. In all likelihood, she was just as oblivious that he was seeing other girls as you were.