My brother

[hithere14]

My brother is going through puberty he's 13 and I keep catching him putting things deep inside his butt is this normal? Should I help him push them inside when he asks me? Should I tell someone? Or should I leave him?

[tret123]

He could get stuff stuck in there... See you serious

[PennyRoyalTea]

Talk to him about it

[NeuroTiger]

Man, honestly, talk to your bro about that before he gets serious rectal infections.

[coolkid016]

Yeah..... if you let him continuously do it, something not pleasurable can happen.

[SethfromMI]

yea, have a healthy convo about what is healthy and what is not

[James Dean]

I would probably tell him to stop and be careful as that sounds extremely unsafe. I understand people experiment and stuff, but there is a fine line as to what's ok and isn't ok.

[Hideous]

Tell him to be careful. It's not necessary for you to help him. I would tell him not to put anything sharp or anything can that shatter/break.

[Pulp501]

Yeah, just tell him that some of those things can be unsafe so he probably shouldn't do it at least not without properly researching what's safe and what's not. Really I wouldn't think there's many household objects suitable for that

[Cloud_Strife]

My brother is going through puberty he's 13 and I keep catching him putting things deep inside his butt is this normal? Should I help him push them inside when he asks me? Should I tell someone? Or should I leave him?

Hi mate. They're called foreign bodies for a reason! They don't belong there and the risk is having something stuck, or causing some injury in the process of putting something in, or taking it out! You should probably counsel him to stop and should definitely not assist. At the end of the day, he's 13 and as you said - going through puberty. He's hormone fueled and is probably letting that drive his decision making. You're four years older and would be in the position where he would look to you for advice. It's likely that he'd listen to you to stop, if you asked him to. If he is continuing and putting himself at risk despite your advice, I'd consider telling someone like your parents. It's far better than him getting hurt and certainly better than you harming him if you allow him to continue, or if you yourself push things into him. Just my two cents... Hope that helps!

[Hermes]

I think have an adult conversation about risk and benefit. Some people get pleasure from anal stimulation but there are risks and the risks increase with poor choice of object to put up there. At the end of the day, if he is determined, you can't stop him but you don't have to help.

[Tyler97]

I would say that it is NOT normal and probably dangerous.

[Zachary G]

I think have an adult conversation about risk and benefit. Some people get pleasure from anal stimulation but there are risks and the risks increase with poor choice of object to put up there. At the end of the day, if he is determined, you can't stop him but you don't have to help.

Very good point here, its the best I could have said.

[Unknwn]

That sounds dangerous! I think you should find a way to help slowly reduce the times he does that or reduce the amount of stuff he uses - not necessarily tell someone else about it right away because they might take it to an extreme, but if something serious does happen then yes, you should tell an adult. It sounds dangerous what he is doing!

[hithere14]

Yeah I told him it's unsafe and he has decided to have his friends come round so they can all have sex with him instead he can get two in at the same time

[mwatkins]

My brother is going through puberty he's 13 and I keep catching him putting things deep inside his butt is this normal? Should I help him push them inside when he asks me? Should I tell someone? Or should I leave him?

Sure talk to him, tell is normal to jack off but to be careful about putting things inhis butt. Tell him about getting boners and laying with his pens

[Bluebyrd]

If that was me I'd leave him to it but morally speaking, you should probably talk to him about it.

[hyperdude]

i made a thread earlier about actual real problems i have with my own brother so when i see others make threads about their brothers i read them to see if they have similar problems... i never expected to read what i did in here! this is a disturbing thread!!

[Coleton]

You should probably talk to him about it and let him know that if he is going to do it then he needs to be safe about it. If you both feel comfortable with helping/experimenting with him then go ahead!

[James Dean]

OP is banned.

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