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Breadzilla
May 3rd, 2015, 04:51 PM
I have always been awful at being social in general, up until recently. I decided to just stop being shy and get over it, so I went to a party with some friends in my home city, which I live about quite a bit away from, so I hadn't met this new addition to the group yet.

I sat down and we greeted and chatted, she seems pretty interesting, we have common interests, similar humour and she's gorgeous.

But here is the issue, I don't really know if that's the reason why I'm interested in her. I've always been a really competetive person always looking for a new challenge to face, which is why I'm studying a difficult line of work, climbing to almost diamond in League of Legends, etc. I always feel the need to get a challenge and win it.

She has this look that just says "I'm superior to everyone" so I guess I took it as a challenge to try hooking up with her. I did get to 1st base in all senses.

What I want to know, is there any way I can find out whether I actually like her, or if it's for the sake of the challenge?

audiophile5
May 4th, 2015, 08:23 AM
Well let's say right now you're only interested in her cause you like the challenge and as you try to "win" you actually get to like her. Or maybe not. But I,d say there's only way to find out - by going for it.

PJet1357
May 11th, 2015, 12:44 AM
just go for it, youll know the right reasons once youve gone through with it. if it lasts, your intentions were better placed than just winning her over