help

[fighterpilot360]

i used to have lots of friends but since im growing up nobody wants to be my friend can anyone help.

[Breadzilla]

Try chatting with people from your school, don't overthink the conversation or what you're saying because that's how you freeze up in conversations. If you practice turning off the thought process that always makes you think "is this a good thing to say?" before you say it, and you show confidence, it will take you a long way in conversations. If you do good and befriend them they will probably introduce you to their friends, and you will become an addition to the group.

Good luck! :)

[Lost in the Echo]

Relationships and Dating :arrow: Family and Friends
This is more relevant here. :)

[Microcosm]

i used to have lots of friends but since im growing up nobody wants to be my friend can anyone help.

I know how you feel, but you shouldn't put yourself down so much. Your friends don't define who you are. You define who you are. Define yourself by your actions. Don't define yourself by who your friends are. I believe this because there are lots of people who have tons of friends but they are really bad or mean people.

[Ridonks_CB]

I understand how you feel, but no need to feel so bad about it if you think about it. If someone is truly a friend, they wouldn't leave you, yeah? There are 7+ billion people on this planet, there's a 100% chance you'll find a friend you can get close to :) Also, don't forget to do your part; make sure you're not straying off as well. I hope things get better for you dear~ xxx

[fighterpilot360]

ill take that into account and ill get back to you. thanks

[Andyyy95]

i used to have lots of friends but since im growing up nobody wants to be my friend can anyone help.
I can't really help, because I've the exact same problem right now - I can't really consider anybody as my friend or someone I can be close with...

[fighterpilot360]

ok thats fine but welcome aboard

[Andyyy95]

ok thats fine but welcome aboard

Haha yeah... I overthink a lot sometimes, which may affect the situation, do you?

[fighterpilot360]

ya i just say to myself "what if they dont like me or if i dont really like them