Thinking about people you shouldn't

[Jamie1441]

I know it's so wrong but sometimes when I masturbate all I can think about is my brothers cock am I a weird person for doing this 😁😔

[playfull-qt]

im sure alot of us have thought about someone we shouldnt think of . i once saw a friend of my dads naked and even though its wrong i still think about his penis sometimes

[devon girl]

nothing wrong with it dont worry

[ashleigh7]

Ya, I don't see any harm in it.

[jenni31]

yes it's perfectly fine I think of my best friend and her brothers cock what's looks really really nice m and I know her boobs I love because your nipples are always hard even when she wears a bra

[Jilly]

Glad to know I am not alone!

[LITTLEANGEL19]

It's not wrong as long as you don't take it any further.

[Uniquemind]

It's not wrong as long as you don't take it any further.

And even then in some cases some will argue it's not wrong if you do take it further just as long as both are consenting adults.


But for the purposes of this thread, any fantasy no matter how taboo is okay to think about because it's FANTASY.

There are limits on what you can act out in real life though.

For me though sometimes non-sexual thoughts help in the bedroom. If I'm pissed at someone but I'm getting it on, I found my mind wanders to imagine that I'm slapping around someone who pissed me off or wronged me.

That person might've totally been unrelated to the person I was with or even had a crush on.


Point is thoughts are weird, and the mind is wild. Don't blame yourself or feel guilt for thoughts, only actions need restriction.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

And even then in some cases some will argue it's not wrong if you do take it further just as long as both are consenting adults.
But it her brother she is taking about, and if they take it further then that's incest and illegal,
And am sure this site and members are not going to condone things like that.

[Uniquemind]

But it her brother she is taking about, and if they take it further then that's incest and illegal,
And am sure this site and members are not going to condone things like that.

Yeah it is, but what I said isn't untrue either. There exist people out there who don't agree with the way the law ruled on it. Doesn't mean I'm endorsing it, though.

Remember the last part of my post also said actions do need restricting but fantasy was limitless.

[lilmisslucylee]

I know it's so wrong but sometimes when I masturbate all I can think about is my brothers cock am I a weird person for doing this 😁😔

Nah not weird at all, I have the same thoughts also. :metal:

[Sardintroll]

No big deal, as long as you don't desire him in your daily life, I'd say it's just fantasies, and nothing more. :)

[hannaszabo]

I don't think it's a problem, our fantasies are free :) Though i dont have a borther. :(

[ClaraWho]

I find myself in agreance that it is a non-issue, even if you may consider my viewpoint biased hah.

[Yolo its Millie]

Aum yah I do and its worse the yours so don’t worry lol, but I don’t have a brother.

[mayyya]

I think it is nothing wrong until it is in your fantasy. Everything is allowed in our imagination. But I cant imagine myself thinking about my relatives during masturbation.

[ashleigh7]

Ya, I say no worries. I have a older brother who is a swimmer....so I see him in a little speedo a lot, it's kinda hard not to look and think about what's in that suit. : )

[Laibachd]

I know it's so wrong but sometimes when I masturbate all I can think about is my brothers cock am I a weird person for doing this 😁😔

It´s not weird at all xD

Maybe your brother is very cute or has a nice penis? :)

[Jamie1441]

It´s not weird at all xD

Maybe your brother is very cute or has a nice penis? :)

Lol he does have a pretty good penis lol

[Iam-Marie]

thoughts are free

[Cangirl]

thoughts are free

yes thoughts are free and we can't help our thoughts :)

[shamrockgirl02]

Definitely not weird, incest is one of the most common fantasies people have, and what goes on in your mind is your business alone. If you enjoy it then it's fine

[Shortie]

Fantacisizing is ok but you'll need to find a penis that's not on your brother for anything else

[kentucky girl]

Not bad at all , everyone has thoughts they shouldn't have

[JaceySmiles]

I think the whole "brother" thing is little bit too much, just to me I guess

[xXoblivionXx]

It's not wrong as long as you don't take it any further.

this ^^

[Katie96xox]

No problem with that at all. I used to fantasise about my sisters and cousins all the time

[xcherriesncreamx]

I do it alot

[Laura101]

I don't think there's anything wrong with simply thinking about someone. I am not sexually attracted to my brother but, he's a really good guy and a great boyfriend to his girlfriend. She's lucky to have him. On another note though, I do wonder about their sex lives sometimes because my brother has a HUGE, uhm....penis and I wouldn't want to have to try to adjust to a penis that large. OH MY!

[THJKIGB]

Nothing wrong with thinking those thoughts, just don't act on the thoughts. :)

[Daniella98]

Be freaky me its easy to see sexy 'stuff' in everybody. But I get my act together

[Hase]

as long as there are only thoughts...

[ClaireM]

When I first started touching myself I sometimes thought about my brother's penis, probably because it was the only one I had seen properly, so I guess it was more a representation of penises as a whole. Now I have seen others I don't fantasise about him any more, but I do sometimes wonder what other guys I know look like, my physics teacher for example.

[Jordan99]

I see my brothers naked all the time either in the pool or as they each race to their rooms after a shower but I never think of either of them in a sexual way. I suppose it is only natural to want to see a nude male body but, no, I never get aroused by my brothers or other family members.

[Hannah98]

Several times my BF and I have been in the same room while my BFF and her BF are having sex and I have to admit, that is very hot! Sometimes when I touch myself I think about seeing them or joining them and a few times have wondered about her BF and me together and my BF and her together. No harm in fantasies...we're all human and we all have them. Makes for a healthy libido :)

[AutumnWinds]

nothing wrong with any fantasy hunnii

[tulolita2015]

Well i live with my stepfather and his son as well my mother and they are the only penis I ever seen on real. Both have huge penis specially my stepfather. Everytime I masturbate I think on their penis and I feel bad later. :confused:

[Jilly]

Definitely, nothing wrong with thinking about it.

You should not stress about it.

[SkyClad33605]

Agreed, there is a big gulf between thinking about something, talking about something, and actually doing something.

[LisaB]

i'm an only child but i have to admit i sometimes get reallly turned on reading stories about this theme. and i don't just mean like bro/sis lol.

[Laibachd]

Lol he does have a pretty good penis lol

Then don´t worry and think about it ^^

[sonnenstrahl]

I see nothing wrong

[jennyem]

What's in your fantasies is in your mind, so dont worry about it. It's fine to have thoughts that you may know is wrong/wierd. Just try and shift your attention to someone else and you'll soon stop thinking that

[kayla...]

I don't see the big deal especially if safe
I know my brother would never hurt me but probably right for such things to stay fantasy

[Dyri_14]

Nott a big deal, all people have that thoughts..enjoy.. :)

[saragoodwin]

everyone has wierd thoughts from time to time! dont worry about it!

[CLS02]

I have not been rubbing (sexually or deliberately) for a long time yet BUT sometimes I think about stuff like that yeah. I always like feel really guilty afterwards tho so I dont know if it is a good thing or not.

[kayla...]

I have not been rubbing (sexually or deliberately) for a long time yet BUT sometimes I think about stuff like that yeah. I always like feel really guilty afterwards tho so I dont know if it is a good thing or not.

That's really common for a while at first
You'll get over it soon

[CLS02]

I know it's so wrong but sometimes when I masturbate all I can think about is my brothers cock am I a weird person for doing this 😁😔
Hey there. Sorry for the question but I kinda relate to your statement. How old is he?

[kayla...]

Hey there. Sorry for the question but I kinda relate to your statement. How old is he?

Lol good point - it could be really wrong if a kid

[SWEET_SARAH]

Think about this. Boys all the time are trying to peek at girls. I caught my brother one time when i was in my room with a friend and was pissed. Even though I'm close to him, i know he tries/wants to see me naked and maybe he has. So if boys do it and think like that girls do too I think. So it's no big deal, just don't cross that fine line.

[AutumnWinds]

Lol he does have a pretty good penis lol

you've seen it?

Hey there. Sorry for the question but I kinda relate to your statement. How old is he?

i'm being super nosy, but do you mind if i ask how you relate? :cool:

Double posts merged. - Abhorrence.

[kayla...]

I'd like to know too

[Emerald Dream]

you've seen it?



i'm being super nosy, but do you mind if i ask how you relate? :cool:

Double posts merged. - Abhorrence.

I'd like to know too


This is a puberty forum, and not for back-and-forth attempts at sexchat or being inappropriate. Cut it out.

[dinap]

You're free to think about whatever you want, as long as you don't act on it it's fine and natural

[CupcakeLuv101]

I know it's definitely wrong but I think it's normal its probably just your hormones :)

[Kristikia]

Can't. I feel guilty lol

[Jilly]

I guess my question is do these toughts and feelings cause you problems, like aside from just thinking they are wrong?

if it were like, an obsession that you were not able to stop thinking about or if you felt you could not control your urges or it was messing up your ability to related to your brother in normal ways, then yes, I could see it being an issue.

if not, it's only thoughts. Nothing wrong with it. Everyone probably thinks things that some might think are wrong, but most will never admit to it!

[Kendra]

I honestly probably think about either my brother or my friend's dad about half the time I masturbate. I've seen both of their penises (on accident) and they're both amazingly well endowed.

[SweetieGirl]

It's normal. Maybe he's really cute and hot. It's normal that you feel turned on. New and different stuff often turns me on.

[dinap]

I think as long as they're just thoughts and you don't act on them, its harmless

[Ashwells9991]

i think everyone has crazy thoughts sometimes

[amylee]

Everyone does this, so don't beat yourself up over it. The more you're self conscious about this sort of stuff the more thoughts like this will crepe up into your mind

[lacey02]

I know it's so wrong but sometimes when I masturbate all I can think about is my brothers cock am I a weird person for doing this ����

I don't think weird especially if that is the only one you have seen.

Everyone does this, so don't beat yourself up over it. The more you're self conscious about this sort of stuff the more thoughts like this will crepe up into your mind

good advice! I think we are too judgmental of ourselves.

-merged double post. -Emerald Dream

What's in your fantasies is in your mind, so dont worry about it. It's fine to have thoughts that you may know is wrong/wierd. Just try and shift your attention to someone else and you'll soon stop thinking that

well said! happy there are nice people here willing to share and encourage others.

Think about this. Boys all the time are trying to peek at girls. I caught my brother one time when i was in my room with a friend and was pissed. Even though I'm close to him, i know he tries/wants to see me naked and maybe he has. So if boys do it and think like that girls do too I think. So it's no big deal, just don't cross that fine line.

My brother and your brother act the same!

Posts merged again. Next time, please use the "Edit" or "Multi" button. ~Elysium

[deepthroat_tacos]

It is a personal preference and fantasy. You can think about anything you like and dont have to justify it towards anyone

[Cangirl]

I don't think weird especially if that is the only one you have seen.



good advice! I think we are too judgmental of ourselves.

-merged double post. -Emerald Dream



well said! happy there are nice people here willing to share and encourage others.



My brother and your brother act the same!

Posts merged again. Next time, please use the "Edit" or "Multi" button. ~Elysium

I think it's all brothers lol

[LanaPole]

it happens to everyone. theres nothing to worry about

[tulolita2015]

I used to watch my stepfather masturbating a lot when I was younger and since he was the first man and penis I saw, I think on him pretty often and I masturbate, I hope this thoughts disappears eventually.

[Abbeys]

I used to watch my stepfather masturbating a lot when I was younger and since he was the first man and penis I saw, I think on him pretty often and I masturbate, I hope this thoughts disappears eventually.

Did he know you used to watch him?

[tulolita2015]

Well i dont know if he knew I watched him at first but then I realize he knew.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

I masterbate thinking about older men and their penises. I don't know why, but I imagine them bigger then a boys penis, or teen boy penis. It also gives me a safe feeling.
I think I'm weird!

[tulolita2015]

That is happening to me too. I masturbate a lot thinking on older men and their penises, I guess for me its because of the almost same feelings as you but the fact that those Ive seen are from older men. (biggest too)

[LITTLEANGEL19]

I used to watch my stepfather masturbating a lot when I was younger and since he was the first man and penis I saw, I think on him pretty often and I masturbate, I hope this thoughts disappears

I masterbate thinking about older men and their penises. I don't know why, but I imagine them bigger then a boys penis, or teen boy penis. It also gives me a safe feeling.
I think I'm weird!

Brenda You should be careful who you spy on masturbating, and to both of you its not good to be thinking of older men in that way as you can't be sure what the outcome may be.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

I used to watch my stepfather masturbating a lot when I was younger and since he was the first man and penis I saw, I think on him pretty often and I masturbate, I hope this thoughts disappears eventually.

That's hot! Did you just hear something one day and then go and see? :wub:

[Vanilla Cupcake]

Brenda You should be careful who you spy on masturbating, and to both of you its not good to be thinking of older men in that way as you can't be sure what the outcome may be.

I don't understand what you mean by outcome? Besides, no one knows what we're thinking about just us!

And I just can't stop thinking about the man at the pool with a big one dangling out his shorts! It was Huge! Like a big sausage, like fat!

And he didn't even know hahah!

[Runnergirl10]

I masterbate thinking about older men and their penises. I don't know why, but I imagine them bigger then a boys penis, or teen boy penis. It also gives me a safe feeling.
I think I'm weird!

I feel the same way. It's weird!

[tulolita2015]

Hey Vanilla Cupcake if that question was for me? then yes I heard noises sometimes and because the curiosity I went to see and realize what they were doing. (masturbating)

[Emerald Dream]

This has gotten way too inappropriate. Please remember that this is a Puberty forum, and not for attempts at inappropriate conversations. :locked: