Cant see myself having sex with my girlfriend

[Yeti]

Whenever I think of anything past kissing with her, it feels, wrong.

We both like each other, and consent that we're in a relationship. I find her very attractive. I masturbate to straight porn fairly frequently, and I can fantasize about sexual interactions with other girls, so its not a hormonal problem I don't think.

Why does this happen?

[Vermilion]

Are you sexually attracted to her or just romantic attraction ?

[Uniquemind]

Sounds like you are with the wrong person perhaps and instinctively you feel this?

[Yeti]

Are you sexually attracted to her or just romantic attraction ?

Romantically, but shouldnt I want to share something this sacred with the person I love?

[Yeti]

Sounds like you are with the wrong person perhaps and instinctively you feel this?

What do you mean?

[Vermilion]

Romantically, but shouldnt I want to share something this sacred with the person I love?

How old are you ?
also my last relationship I loved her to bits but I was only really romantically attracted to her don't get me wrong she turned me on but I couldn't see us having sex don't know why but it's the way it was

[Yeti]

How old are you ?
also my last relationship I loved her to bits but I was only really romantically attracted to her don't get me wrong she turned me on but I couldn't see us having sex don't know why but it's the way it was

17 in September. Did you all ever talk about it?

[Vermilion]

17 in September. Did you all ever talk about it?

No we never spoke off it but she never made any move or suggested anything sexually so I think she felt the same

[Yeti]

No we never spoke off it but she never made any move or suggested anything sexually so I think she felt the same

Do you think it wouldve been something that'd be safe to talk about?

[Vermilion]

Do you think it wouldve been something that'd be safe to talk about?

If you feel comfortable then tell her, you have a better idea than me to how she will react. There's two things to this , one she'll understand and still love you or she might feel she's not good enough for you. So its your call

[MeliWelli]

It's rare but I've met guys I've been physically attracted to but not sexually...Not sure what to tell you, but no sense forcing something if you feel that way about her.

[Yeti]

It's rare but I've met guys I've been physically attracted to but not sexually...Not sure what to tell you, but no sense forcing something if you feel that way about her.

I dont want to rob her of that kind of experience if she really wants it, or give her the idea that I dont find her attractive

[Vermilion]

I dont want to rob her of that kind of experience if she really wants it, or give her the idea that I dont find her attractive

Just be honest with her don't let her think otherwise. The truth isn't always the easiest but it's the right thing

[Zachary G]

I dont want to rob her of that kind of experience if she really wants it, or give her the idea that I dont find her attractive

if you do it with her even though you are not sexually attracted to her, you will still be robbing her of that kind of experience because your heart will not be in it 100%.

[jacshamy]

Whenever I think of anything past kissing with her, it feels, wrong.

We both like each other, and consent that we're in a relationship. I find her very attractive. I masturbate to straight porn fairly frequently, and I can fantasize about sexual interactions with other girls, so its not a hormonal problem I don't think.

Why does this happen?

Do you want to have sex or are you totally happy just being with her? Either way you should tell her but don't give her the impression you're trying to "trick" her into sex.