This guy...

[Stronk Serb]

OK, so this guy texted my girlfriend to cheat on me with him, she told me about that. I've met the guy on a bus as I was escorting my girl home a while back before this, he was a total wuss. I told my girlfriend to tell him that I will beat the bajesus out of him if he suggests something like that. She ignores him. What do you advise me to do?

[Babs]

Don't beat the bajesus out of him. It's best to stay out of trouble. But if you suspect she has/would/will cheat on you with him, then you might wanna reconsider the relationship.

[Stronk Serb]

Don't beat the bajesus out of him. It's best to stay out of trouble. But if you suspect she has/would/will cheat on you with him, then you might wanna reconsider the relationship.

Well, she wouldn't cheat on me with anyone except... me. I'm thinking of giving him a warning and politely tell him to piss off. If he keeps doing it, well, he knew the consequences.

[Emerald Dream]

She ignores him.

It looks like you pretty much answered your own question right there. Between that, and the fact that she has been upfront about being propositioned by the guy - I wouldn't be too worried. It very much looks like she's not interested at all.

[Stronk Serb]

Ok he just texted her saying he would like to take her virginity. This is harassment and changes the situation up a bit.

[Zachary G]

though beating him up might make you feel good, it will make you look like a goon to everyone else. if it were me, I would have a talk with the dude and kindly let him know that he needs to back off and "GET HIS OWN!!"

[Uranus]

Wow.
I suggest you just simply report him to the authorities. Him repeatedly suggesting sexually related activities with her IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT!
Just report him, and be done with it. Don't get yourself in trouble.

[Stronk Serb]

though beating him up might make you feel good, it will make you look like a goon to everyone else. if it were me, I would have a talk with the dude and kindly let him know that he needs to back off and "GET HIS OWN!!"

This is an insult to me, but more important, it's an even greater insult to my girlfriend. She told him to fuck off a few times, didn't work. There's no reasoning with this quack, unless you're thinking of boot to the head.

Wow.
I suggest you just simply report him to the authorities. Him repeatedly suggesting sexually related activities with her IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT!
Just report him, and be done with it. Don't get yourself in trouble.

Police don't do shit about stuff like that, they refused to help me when I recieved a death threat text, that is illegal here. I'm seriously reconsidering dropping my boot down his jaw but that can get me in trouble.

[Uniquemind]

Be wary he sounds like he might have a mental illness.

[Stronk Serb]

Be wary he sounds like he might have a mental illness.

Like what? I know about a few but none manifest this way.

[DoodleSnap]

Violence is very very rarely the answer, and most certainly does not solve the cuurent situation, and will simply end up inflaming and provoking him. Just get your girlfriend to block his number on her phone. Firmly tell him that both you and your girlfriend feel that this is harassment, and that if he doesn't stop then you will speak to the authorities. If you are worried about what your girlfriend thinks, then speak to her. Communication is the foundation of any good relationship, so speak to her and find out what is on her mind. Good luck.

[Stronk Serb]

Violence is very very rarely the answer, and most certainly does not solve the cuurent situation, and will simply end up inflaming and provoking him. Just get your girlfriend to block his number on her phone. Firmly tell him that both you and your girlfriend feel that this is harassment, and that if he doesn't stop then you will speak to the authorities. If you are worried about what your girlfriend thinks, then speak to her. Communication is the foundation of any good relationship, so speak to her and find out what is on her mind. Good luck.

The authorities won't do anything. If she blocks his phone number, he will probably just buy a new SIM card, they're very cheap here. She told him several times to stop or he will have probkems. He still continues to harass her.

[SethfromMI]

Wow.
I suggest you just simply report him to the authorities. Him repeatedly suggesting sexually related activities with her IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT!
Just report him, and be done with it. Don't get yourself in trouble.

this. and this way, you are not the one who has to handle him, the authorities will

edit: well if the authorities won't do anything, trust your gf and ignore him for right now. if he tries to physically touch her or something, then yes, I would take it to my own hands and make sure he got the message to leave her alone

[Stronk Serb]

this. and this way, you are not the one who has to handle him, the authorities will

edit: well if the authorities won't do anything, trust your gf and ignore him for right now. if he tries to physically touch her or something, then yes, I would take it to my own hands and make sure he got the message to leave her alone

She told me she can't stand him. He texted her in 3 AM. I'll drop the boot.

[SethfromMI]

She told me she can't stand him. He texted her in 3 AM. I'll drop the boot.

well you got to do what you got to do, but make sure you think carefully about whatever course of action you do decide to take