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[confused99]

well let me start off by saying tht about 3 weeks ago my gf dumped me for another guy. We had gone out for around a year, and where around 3rd base. The thing is she went from loving me to making out w/ this guy, dumping me, then go out w/ him. me and her have been though alot and now she hardly notices my precense. i am moving on and stuff. this break up has cause alot of pain(i tried to cut) but it was for the better. (i have become closer with my other friends). i know so far it seems like i am fine, and i am but its just like i am confused and i feel alone at times. I know othr friends who also feel this way and i feel awkward talking about this with them cause they have it worse thn i do. I have great friends but i miss like a connection tht u have w/ a girl, like only ONE girl. there was this one girl (i didnt like her, i just felt a connection) and now she has stoped talking to me cause i stoped talking to her for my ex, (whole different story) and now she also wont even look at me. i know i dont have a bad problem or anything i just needed to post this to get it off my sholders and stuff.
srry if i rambeled on, the story is long and i did my best to shorten it

[Mzor203]

I'd say that it's best to forget about her as she obviously isn't a very caring person, dumping you after all that time just because there was another guy that she liked. She sounds like a person who doesn't want to have a dedication to anything. It's better she did this now than later, as if you were married w/ kids it would be a whole lot worse.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Do not let her get the best of you! Im not worried and neither should you! Here's what you do, be smarter than, I.E dont spread rumors! Use your logic, and out wit her, because it seems as though its what she lacks also, dont sswear us rationality and she should back off. If this doesnt work then tell her to stop.

[Nihilus]

move on. but remember the good times you had

[dudesweet101]

Think of it as a life lesson.

[Close102]

dont focus too much attention on it. you even said it yourself that you have become closer with your other friends because of it. so isnt that a good thing. but if you really like her then talk to her about it.

[confused99]

yea

i feel better after posting it

they are things i miss about having a gf, but now idc when i see them kissing at school or hear about them.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Thats how you do it, go out and find another girl, because remember your still young and there are plenty of fishes out there just wait till you find the girl thats right for you!

[blank_07]

i think shes still a good person.
and that you should just get over it.
and that maybe she was planning to dump you before that.

[Serenity]

Yay for short-lasting high school relationships!

Don't think you're alone, because really this is like the epitome of high school love. You think you're both head-over-heels for each other, will be together forever, and then WHAM out of nowhere they're sick of you and drop you like a hot potato. That's why I'm very wary to date people in my school...

Basically, just accept it as an inevitable part of life and move on. It is by no means the end of the world and I have every certainty that there will be several more girlfriends after her, who likely will treat you better as you, and in turn, your girlfriends, mature more. You'll find that as you get older, your relationships will be more substantial and will last longer. Just remember that having a girlfriend isn't the most important thing in the world and that her dumping you for someone else doesn't make you any less of a person. Then you can get on with your life and be a happy teenager like the rest of us! Yayyyy :yeah:

[Rutherford The Brave]

Yay for short-lasting high school relationships!

Don't think you're alone, because really this is like the epitome of high school love. You think you're both head-over-heels for each other, will be together forever, and then WHAM out of nowhere they're sick of you and drop you like a hot potato. That's why I'm very wary to date people in my school...

Basically, just accept it as an inevitable part of life and move on. It is by no means the end of the world and I have every certainty that there will be several more girlfriends after her, who likely will treat you better as you, and in turn, your girlfriends, mature more. You'll find that as you get older, your relationships will be more substantial and will last longer. Just remember that having a girlfriend isn't the most important thing in the world and that her dumping you for someone else doesn't make you any less of a person. Then you can get on with your life and be a happy teenager like the rest of us! Yayyyy :yeah:

Average high school relationships go from 3 weeks to 2 months
average middle school relationships go from 1 day to 1 week...

[cswub90]

i think shes still a good person.
and that you should just get over it.
and that maybe she was planning to dump you before that.

i dont think tht a comment if the girl he went out w/ is good or not is appropriate . it sure sounds like she isnt a good person cause of how she treated him.

[blank_07]

shes me.