Girlfriend

[Alien djinn]

Hey everyone. I want to share with you a worry that i have and i want you to give me your opinion, what you think about it. So the problem is: i am 17 and...i Never had a girlfriend. Yep i know that sucks:(. I had sex two times but it was with random women i met and that were looking also for sex. But i would prefer to have a girlfriend , not for sex but for love. I just feel that it's the missing thing in my life. This year i have met a girl in high school and i fell in love, i tought: "this is it, she Will be my first one". But in reality she was playing with me, she didn't like me, not even as a friend. She made me think that she loved me just because she found it funny, cause i'm kind of a strange guy, so she and her friends had a lot of fun doing that. And now i can't forget her and she is not even kind to me. Sometimes she makes me jealous with guys just for fun,she doesn't care that i'm in pain because of her. Do you think a guy like me Will ever find love ? And how do you feel about my story? I was often depressed before that but now it' even worst.

[Abhorrence]

Everybody can find love, it may take longer than others to find it but you will.

[Alien djinn]

May god hear you my friend

[Babs]

This doesn't really have anything to do with sexual orientation, so I'm moving it to R&D.

[Breadzilla]

You have several ways to approach this, for an example you could go around and flirt with chicks, or you could take your time and befriend some, then eventually if it turns out you like them, ask them out.

Patience is key though, don't just go out with someone for the sake of going out with someone, find someone whose company you enjoy, or else your relationship will feel miserable.
I don't see anything in your post showing too poor self confidence to handle it. Some girls like keeping guys on a thread to play with, however if that guy finds himself someone else, then they might regret it, which will work almost like a sort of revenge.

Besides that, go out, meet people, find someone cute, walk up to them and talk to them. Don't have anything to talk about? Screw that, talk about anything. Talk about god damn banana bread if you'd so like, turn off your mental barrier that makes you think over everything you say, and eventually you will find success. Just ask them out on dates and see where it takes you!

[Uranus]

I'm really sorry to hear that :(
Seems like you're really upset. But don't worry :) Every one is able to find love. It may take longer than others, but as long as you don't give up, I guarantee you will find someone who will love you. You just gotta keep going :)

[Alien djinn]

Thanks a lot for your answers . I'll keep hoping , i'm just scared that i might be not interesting enough for girls or boring. I think that if i find one, she Will be a strange person like me XD.

[Dynamo360]

Bro there's nothing wrong with taking your time, other people that you know who are in relationships probably aren't serious, you're only 17 you have your whole life ahead of your self, don't worry about that girl, just try your best to forget her and avoid her at all costs, she doesn't sound like the kind of person you want to be hanging out with

[Alien djinn]

Yeah thx a lot bro. But i don't know why i'm obssessed with her , constantly thinking about the relations she might have with guys. I mean it's not even logical, i hate her and love her at the same time , despote the fact that she is mean to me. It's the first time it happened to me. I think the only way to completely Forget her is to be with another one.