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MeliWelli
April 27th, 2015, 02:39 AM
Things with my bf and I have been going pretty well. Can't complain, but as we've started to experiment more sexually, I want to be sure that whatever we are doing is enjoyable and safe...We recently started doing anal, which I had to warm up to, but really like now.

My bf loves it. Since we've started I've made sure to always clean up before we do anything back there...Haven't had any issues, but my bf likes to "roam" now that I'm more comfortable with it. He usually wants anal, oral, and vaginal sex when we get together. Since I'm on birth control now he doesn't use condoms.

Neither he nor I have had any problems, but do you think it still might be risky?

Not open enough with my mom,to get into that level of detail, but my sister says she's never had any issues with guys switching it up as long as she is clean first...

Thoughts??
Abbeys
April 27th, 2015, 03:31 AM
For me I get the ewwwwwww factor going from anal to oral but then I guess I should go to a convent school..........oh wait....I do go to a convent school.

But seriously though,your in a long term relationship with somebody you trust.

There's no obvious risk of STD’s as long as he stops if you ask.

No probs!!!
Daniella98
April 27th, 2015, 05:02 AM
I see no problem either. Keep going if youre happy
devon girl
April 27th, 2015, 11:04 PM
all of that is safe enough tho some do use both birth control and condoms, but other than that all is good
jenni31
April 28th, 2015, 05:45 PM
I am NOT into it but I've heard lots of girls that are just make sure when he's in your vagina and then he wants to go into your ass make sure his penis is clean so just. Cross contamination with bacteria
MeliWelli
April 29th, 2015, 01:46 AM
Thnx everyone!
Taryn98
April 29th, 2015, 05:15 PM
As long as you both have good hygiene and both are free of std's, go for it.
beccajay
April 29th, 2015, 07:05 PM
Just be careful. If he switches from anal to vaginal without properly cleaning himself, you could end up with a yeast infection or a UTI. Not pleasant!!
teenkbell52
April 29th, 2015, 08:55 PM
Sounds fine to me
MeliWelli
April 30th, 2015, 02:51 AM
As long as you both have good hygiene and both are free of std's, go for it.

Thanks everyone! I've basically sticking to what Taryn said...Considering we are committed, and take good care of ourselves and each other I'm feeling good about this :)
Abbeys
April 30th, 2015, 04:06 AM
Thanks everyone! I've basically sticking to what Taryn said...Considering we are committed, and take good care of ourselves and each other I'm feeling good about this :)

And I'm feeling jealous!!!!

:D