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yesthistime
April 26th, 2015, 10:50 PM
So im 17 and recently graduated from highschool. As of now im not taking any classes and wont be for quite some time, so im often home a lot of the time talking to my friends over skype or watching t.v. etc. But now, my parents have started to behave pretty hostile to me. i used to make an attempt to make plans with them and talk to them quite often, but now whenever i go somewhere with them, the only time they speak to me is to tell me im a brat and why they shouldnt take me with them anymore. so eventually that stopped happening, and i atleast tried to talk to them more and see them when they come home from work, but all im ever greeted by is something like, "what do you want" or i can ask a simple question such as if they had eaten dinner yet, and they would just say "I dont have time to feed you every damn meal, find it yourself" when all i would ask is if they had eaten. they are just hostile towards me almost all the time no matter what i say to them, and i've just started avoiding them almost entirely. now they will come into my room and scold me for never coming out and doing things with them. i've tried to bring this up with them before but they just tell me im just being a moody teenager and that im in the wrong, and they just ignore me. I dont know how to fix this i dont even know what im doing wrong.

Vermilion
April 27th, 2015, 01:54 AM
It could be they see you doing a lot with your life but your doing nothing

Breadzilla
April 27th, 2015, 02:16 PM
In Norway it isn't too uncommon to take a year off school to do something else, I don't know how it works in other countries, but this is just an example for something that happened to me. My parents told me that if I did it, they would throw me out of the house, because they don't want another son wasting his life not doing anything. Go out and get a job, study something you'd like, apply to college or something. I don't know you, but I still believe that we all have unlimited potential of what we could do as long as we try hard enough, so go out there and give your family something to be proud of! :)

Babs
April 27th, 2015, 05:40 PM
I highly doubt they hate you. Maybe they're frustrated with you for some reason, or with something else and they're taking it out on you. They shouldn't talk to you that way though. Depending on how well they take criticism, you might wanna consider talking to them about it