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Dynamo360
April 26th, 2015, 07:47 AM
So me and this girl (I'm a guy) have been friends for a couple of years, over this time we've been getting closer, last year I started to have a crush on her, then later on that year we found out we liked each other. So we talked for a bit and decided to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but then a couple of days later she told me that she wasn't mentally ready to have a boyfriend. We hadn't told anyone that we were going out but one of our other friends wanted us to, she wouldn't shut up about us so we told her what had happened. But now I feel like I really really like her but I don't feel comfortable asking her if she's ready yet.

We also flirt quite a bit, so I know she still likes me, but I just don't know if she's ready to be in a relationship yet.

Miserabilia
April 29th, 2015, 04:38 PM
I think if she's really ready she'd say it herself, otherwise you'd end up in the same situation as before

Dynamo360
April 29th, 2015, 05:18 PM
Thanks for the advice

Zachary G
April 30th, 2015, 09:24 AM
I think if she's really ready she'd say it herself, otherwise you'd end up in the same situation as before

Id have to agree with this advice; when she is ready, she will let you know.