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ValentinClarke
April 26th, 2015, 04:37 AM
There's this guy I like and he's about a year or two older than me. I'm 14, turning 15 in October, and he's just turned 16. I don't know if he's gay/bi. There's been a few hints that he may be gay/bi, but nothing definite.
He looks at me, a lot. Like full on staring. And I catch him, he carries on looking, then turns away. He's been looking at me like this for a while, and now I'm starting to like him. I really want to know if he's gay/bi. And, I've thought about asking his friends, but I'm not especially close to them, and then I've thought about asking him why he looks at me, or just straight out asking for his sexuality. I don't want to seem weird though. He has a couple weeks left here, and then he leaves from this school, along with the rest of his year. I don't want to miss out on an opportunity like this, if he actually does like me. He's a nice guy, cute, caring, hot, muscly. Everything I want in someone, yet, I don't know.

Dynamo360
April 26th, 2015, 08:09 AM
Just ask him, if he's leaving soon then if he's straight then he can't be mean or rude to you for long, but if he does like you then that's a win win situation

DoodleSnap
April 27th, 2015, 04:09 PM
Speak to him; strike up a conversation and see how he reacts. Being brave and making the first move is what makes the world go round, so enjoy being young and having opportunities! If you aren't sure at first, build up a friendship, and see how he reacts to some hint-dropping. There is no way to find out without asking or finding out first hand, so good luck!

jenni31
April 28th, 2015, 10:16 PM
it is hard to start a conversation sometimes sometimes we are shy sometimes we have social anxiety before you give it a try and if he rejects you try again for a few more times you might end up in his arms and in his pants

Zachary G
April 30th, 2015, 09:21 AM
sometimes its easier to drop a little note with your questions and intentions on it, just dont sign your name, but give him a some way to contact you and see where it goes from there. if he is interested at all he will respond, but if he isnt then you will never hear from him. doesnt hurt to try.