How Do You Say No.

[Abbeys]

If a boy asked you to do something and you didn’t want to.

[hannaszabo]

I'm pretty straight-forward, first i try to show him that i don't want to do that particular thing, but if he won't understand, then i tell him and offer an alternative. :)

[Stumpygoat]

Say no and get them out of your life. Anyone treating you like that doesn't deserve your attention.

[Elysium]

Say no and get them out of your life. Anyone treating you like that doesn't deserve your attention.
This, for real. A good rule of thumb: if you're afraid of saying no to your significant other for whatever reason, they shouldn't be your significant other.

Also, Puberty for Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Dynamo360]

The best way to say no is to say no. If he then tries to force you, then you shouldn't be with them, or if he leaves you then you shouldn't be with him because that means he only wanted you for things you didn't want to do.

[Emerald Dream]

The fact that he's even telling you he would leave you means he doesn't really care about you in the first place.

Tell him you don't want to do it, and he actually respects you then he'll drop it. If not, you're better off without him in the long run anyway.

[KeeganW]

If he actually said somebody else would do it for him to you then laugh at him and dump him,,,,, you can do way better than him. Just sayin.

[Dying Ember]

Say no, and if he doesn't listen then end the relationship. He needs to have respect for you and if he isn't giving you any then he isn't worth it

[Babs]

It's pretty easy. Like this: "No."
Don't be afraid to lose him. If he's worth it, he wouldn't just up and leave because you don't want a sexual relationship. If he does leave, then he was so much less than you deserve.
If he said he would leave you unless you're sexual with him, he's a selfish, manipulative horndog.

[DoodleSnap]

It's pretty easy. Like this: "No."
Don't be afraid to lose him. If he's worth it, he wouldn't just up and leave because you don't want a sexual relationship. If he does leave, then he was so much less than you deserve.
If he said he would leave you unless you're sexual with him, he's a selfish, manipulative horndog.
I couldn't have said it better myself. Anyone treating their partner like this is abusive, and not worth anyone's time.

[jenni31]

You just say NO!!! if he cannot follow your no then it is rape regardless of age. You need to protect your body and make it available to whoever you want but you and only you have the right to say yes or no to anybody

[SethfromMI]

tell them NO. if you want to be polite say no thank you, but tell them no. if he tries to force you to do something you don't want to do get help and even be ready to defend yourself if you must

[Uniquemind]

You first have to let go over the concept of having your cake and eating it too.


Part of growing up is that when you like someone but they aren't healthy for you, is letting them go, because they fail to hold up 50% of the relationship to make it work.

When you say "No" you need to accept he can leave the relationship with you. It'll hurt but it's not your fault.


If your partner doesn't care they're causing you pain, then you never had their true affections to start, everything that they do that convey's they care for you is a intoxicating illusion, similar to the real thing, but a lie nonetheless.

[Zachary G]

no means no and if they cant understand that then they need to move on and find someone else.

[megmurph]

Say no, and if he doesn't listen punch him in his balls. They don't seem to like that.

[Zachary G]

No matter how much I might like the boy, if its something im not comfortable with, then im going to tell him and if its something that I just dont want to do, then im telling him no - straight up. No means NO!! and im sorry if his feelings get hurt, but it is what it is.

[Melodic]

I just simply say no and that I don't want to. If they don't understand, then they obviously aren't right for me.

[Emerald Dream]

Say no, and if he doesn't listen punch him in his balls. They don't seem to like that.

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