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SimplyAwkward
April 25th, 2015, 01:26 PM
I'm too scared to masturbate! Like, I really want to try, but I'm too anxious!

I usually get aroused and feel a tingling feeling in my inner thighs when I read kinky fan fics. Then I'll have an urge to touch myself
Andyyy95
April 25th, 2015, 02:40 PM
I'm too scared to masturbate! Like, I don't know how and I really want to try, but I'm too anxious!

I usually get aroused and feel a tingling feeling in my inner thighs when I read kinky fan fics. Then I'll have an urge to touch myself, but idk how!

You read 1D/5SOS fanfic?? XD Typical fangirl eh? Hahahaha!

Techniques aren't allowed to be discussed on these forums, but I'll give some advice - masturbation is something that should be learnt/explored by yourself, when you feel that you're 'ready'. Of course there's the likes of Google etc, but only you'd know what feels good - it's your own body remember!

Hope that kind of helps,

Andy
BlackParadePixie
April 26th, 2015, 12:04 AM
what are you scared of? If you do it in a private place where nobody can bother you, there's nothing to worry about.
Trustworthy
April 26th, 2015, 10:45 AM
Masturbating is natural there is no reason to be scared, try it out and see if you like it, lol. good luck ;)
Mark2000
July 3rd, 2015, 09:50 AM
Just lay in bed with it covered and read. And see what happens
Laibachd
July 3rd, 2015, 10:08 AM
Just do it, youŽll love it, i promise you ^^
Kochanek
July 4th, 2015, 02:29 PM
Just do it, youŽll love it, i promise you ^^

I could not say it better.
When I did it the first time and had my very first orgasm, it was so overwhelming, that I wanted that feeling again right away!
Just JT
July 4th, 2015, 02:48 PM
Yuhaaa, sure did...
You are never guna know if u like somethin unles you try it
Never heard of someone dying or getting hurt from doin it
So go ahead, have fun girl....
Sports Boy
July 4th, 2015, 05:56 PM
It's definitely worth trying. I think that once you start, you'll probably never stop.
skittle
July 4th, 2015, 07:04 PM
Don't be anxious! Masturbation is completely normal and imo everyone can benefit from learning more about their own bodies.
What are you anxious about? Choose a private time when you're alone and have no chance of being interrupted, and then just start slow and see what feels good!
ashdaniel
July 8th, 2015, 11:12 PM
I'm too scared to masturbate! Like, I really want to try, but I'm too anxious!

I usually get aroused and feel a tingling feeling in my inner thighs when I read kinky fan fics. Then I'll have an urge to touch myself

Don't force yourself, masturbation is all about pleasure and self-explore. If you feel uncomfortable or scare then don't do it. If you really want to try go slowly. Like touch yourself slowly. It will happen naturally. It is all about how comfortable you feel. Don't feel pressure from your peers , friends or from us. It is all about you and how you feel. Teenage is all about growth and self-explore.