I'm scared to..?

[SimplyAwkward]

I'm too scared to masturbate! Like, I never have (and I really want to), but I'm too anxious!:confused:

Some things that arouse me are 5sos fan fics with kinks! once I feel arouse, I have an urge to touch myself, but I'm too scared!

[WanderingHeart]

Why are you scared?

[SimplyAwkward]

I'm nervous because I'm afraid something might go wrong, like I heard if u finger yourself, its bad?

- Asking for tips and techniques on how to masturbate is not allowed.

[Sardintroll]

There's nothing to be afraid of, just relax, focus on what turns you on, and start nice and easy. ;)

[Abbeys]

It can be scary because you are getting sensations you never got before.

But if you don't carry on and cross the threshold you won't experience orgasm.

The worst that can happen is you might feel a bit sore from excessive rubbing but you can't break it.

Not using your fingers anyway!!!

[cheergurl]

its just as normal as eating when you're hungry or scratching and itch. Try it, you have nothing to lose :)

[Taryn98]

Masturbation is totally normal and healthy for you. There's no reason to be anxious. Everyone does it so there's nothing wrong with you if you do it. Why would you deprive yourself of something that feels good and relaxes you?

[rachel_ballet]

First off it's totally normal to masturbate!
Get that fear out of your mind!
If you're worried about fingering yourself, start off with just rubbing your clitoris!
If you're not sure about where that is, look it up or reach down to your vagina open it up with your fingers and about the first part of it, you will feel a bean shaped part! That's it!
With the tips of your fingers, stroke that for a while! Since it's the first time, it will feel so good you won't wanna stop. You may want to use a mirror so you know what things look like down there!
Don't be ashamed! It's normal natural and okay to make yourself feel good!

[hotgirlwtits]

It's ok to feel that way, take it slow and you will see there is nothing to be afraid of. It took me a while to finally do it, but when I did it felt so good. Just take it slow and go with the flow. :)

[Living For Love]

This is getting inappropriate because people are just sharing techniques, therefore :locked: