Will you wait till marriage for having sex?

[AliceParks]

I am just curious to know if you wait till marriage for sex. Do you care about your purity or sexual desires? There are many couples who sleep with one another or even live together while they are not married. What about you? Do you lose your virginity before marriage or wait?

[Elysium]

I don't care at all for the concept of virginity, purity, etc. If I want to have sex with someone before I'm married then I will, though I doubt it'll happen (I pretty much identify as asexual at this point).

[Abbeys]

It depends on what you mean by virgin.

Some girls I know have had anal sex and still consider themselves virgins.

Technically they are I suppose.

As for waiting,it depends on the individual or individuals as the guy must have some say in the question.

[Sardintroll]

No. Why should I pay a priest tons of money to wed me and my partner, just to have sex? It doesn't make sense.

[WanderingHeart]

Well yeah I'd wait until marriage. Not just because of religious reasons, but I don't think girls should just go having sex with guys because it's not like the guy will stay. I do not think we are sexual objects and should only have sex with the guy that's going to be staying with us for the rest of life.
That's just my opinion on the subject.

[kailynr]

Seeing as sexuality is an important part of a lasting partnership, there's not one chance in a million that I'll be married to anyone that I haven't had sex with beforehand. It isn't the *only* thing that matters to me (far from it), but it is important.

By "sex" I mean more than just penis-in-vagina intercourse. It would be silly to define it that way for those of us who have the potential for same-gender relationships. I personally think that sex encompasses a whole range of experiences, but that's a topic for another thread. Like Abbey said, I have friends who have engaged in other activities besides vaginal intercourse, and they still claim they're virgins. I can't help but snicker at them for that claim. Honestly.

Being sexually compatible is important, and you won't know whether you are or not unless you've experienced it. You can love someone very much, but if there isn't sexual chemistry, the relationship is going to have trouble. As I said before, sex isn't the only thing, but it does play a formative role in relationships that can't be denied.

Just my thoughts.

[Ridonks_CB]

I'm not interested in sexual activities though I still would have waited till marriage

[Claire Asteroid]

Yes I'm going to wait till I'm married

[jenni31]

yes I am totally waiting to lose my virginity to that someone special I marry. I masturbate a lot and if I'm with the guy I definitely will give him a BJ or HJ if I'm with the girl I will definitely finger her or masturbate with her

[KellyNC]

I think it's a very respectable decision and something you shouldn't move away from if that's what honestly you feel your principals are. On a personal level though it's just not me, I'm too sexual of a person in general and would need to feel sexually comfortable with my partner before I made that sort of commitment.

[Karkat]

That ship has long sailed, let's just say that.

I personally have a pretty neutral view, but I'm certainly not going to bash anyone who believes/acts one way or the other.

[tiffany1]

you have to test drive a car before buying it :D

[EmFr99]

Yes I'm going to wait for marriage.

[Kirina]

No. Why should I pay a priest tons of money to wed me and my partner, just to have sex? It doesn't make sense.

Kinda makes the priest look like a pimp, when you put it that way. :p

I think kailynr put it perfectly. Sexual chemistry is a large part of a relationship and just because you emotionally love the person, that doesn't guarantee that the chemistry is there.
However there is a twist, sexual chemistry can be build. So going into a marriage to find out the chemistry isn't there, doesn't mean the marriage is doomed. Well as long as both put in effort to make it work.

On the other hand, chemistry can also fade. So that "test drive the car" analogy isn't necessarily future-proof.

In all honesty tho. If you put your desires on hold because of religious reasons or illusionary stuff like purity or virginity, you are doing a mistake. Premarital sexual activities does not make you less "pure" or less of a Christian than those who waited. If you believe that, you are wrong.

Unless waiting doesn't bother you at all, than do yourself a favor and enjoy yourself.

A bit off topic, but whether you believe or do not believe in a God or is agnostic. I think everyone should with an open mind, try listening to "Ill mind of hopsin 7"

[Sardintroll]

Kinda makes the priest look like a pimp, when you put it that way. :p

My thought exactly, but you said it for me. Thanks. :P

[Melodic]

All I want is to have sex the first time with someone I deeply love. I don't care if it's before marriage or not.

[Beth]

I would like too but when the time comes things might change. Someone once said you must try on the shoe to see if it fits before buying it.

[rachel_ballet]

I only wish I had!

[Taryn98]

Why would I wait and deprive myself of all the fun I could be having

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Sex with a boy is NOT on my to do list. :yes:

[devon girl]

i did it without being marred but if some people want to wait thats thier choice

[sweetballet]

it's kinda hugely important to my parents that i wait so probably waiting but idk if i had a bf i might change my mind.

[SarahFox]

:lol:well... oops, too late for me!!

But when I get married, Im going to blow my husband's or wife's mind, I want them to be like OH MY GOD WHAT JUST HAPPENED??!!! :lol: