I really like this girl but am shy!

[AlexGendova]

How to ask a girl out if you're shy?

So theres this girl in my Algebra class that I've been falling for and I think she likes me as well, though Im having a hard time asking her out. Im a fat 17yo but am cute (so they say), and this is what is really holding me back. I'm very self conscious which doesnt do anything but make me more shy. Once I've met a person, I open up pretty easily and the shyness is over, but the issue is getting to know that person or asking a girl out. She gives me distinct signs and sometimes I catch her looking at me from the corner of my eye, but because of the big pussy I am, I never look back.

I can tell she's starting to get fustrated with me not "following along" and I don't want her to think that Im not interested. I've heard soo many people say they regret not talking to 'that' girl in highschool and I dont want to end up like those people. My biggest fear is being rejected. Earlier this year another girl was giving me the same signs so I built up the courage to ask for her number and she said no, yet she continued starring at me during class and giving hints that she likes me. I felt like a total idiot and was confused and I never want to feel that way again which is why Im very shy towards most girls (ones I like.) Any tips that could help me? And how do I find out if she likes me without feeling humiliated after finding out Im wrong? I really like this girl and any help will be appreciated.

[WanderingHeart]

Let me tell you something, kid (I am aware you are older than me...)

The only way to ask her out is to just do it! If you were right about her liking you, than hooray! If not, then that's okay. Sometimes a little rejection makes us stronger. It will help you be prepared if you ever got rejected in the future (hopefully not). But if she says no then that's her loss! You seem like a nice person and there would be lots of girls out there that like you. If you really think she likes you then ask her out in private. Or if you want you could try asking her friends about who she likes. It's all up to you! I wish you luck :)!

[AlexGendova]

Thank you for the very encouraging words. I kinda feel better about the situation and less tense. Once I get it through my head I don't have much to lose, I'll be alright. Again thanks, your reply gave me a boost in confidence.

[Ridonks_CB]

Let me tell you something, kid (I am aware you are older than me...)

The only way to ask her out is to just do it! If you were right about her liking you, than hooray! If not, then that's okay. Sometimes a little rejection makes us stronger. It will help you be prepared if you ever got rejected in the future (hopefully not). But if she says no then that's her loss! You seem like a nice person and there would be lots of girls out there that like you. If you really think she likes you then ask her out in private. Or if you want you could try asking her friends about who she likes. It's all up to you! I wish you luck :)!

I agree with everything Party said. If it doesn't go well, don't let it hit you too hard, you're still only 17 and got a long way to go :) If it works out, congratulations!
Wish you the best of luck mate~

[WanderingHeart]

Thank you for the very encouraging words. I kinda feel better about the situation and less tense. Once I get it through my head I don't have much to lose, I'll be alright. Again thanks, your reply gave me a boost in confidence.

You're welcome :metal: good luck with the girl!

[Uniquemind]

Just ask, and if your unhappy about your body make a resolution to get healthy and be as attractive as you can be and in the process make them get all hot and bothered for you.

[DoodleSnap]

As said above; be brave and do it! Taking opportunities and seeing where life sends you is what gives us satisfaction and excitement! Speak to her, and see about casually asking to see if you could get to know her more, or something along those lines. You should be able to work it out after some conversational hints. If you are feeling nervous, find a quiet place beforehand, and stand big: legs wide apart and hands up high, like a starfish. Breathe deeply and feel relaxed. Also try wiggling your fingers and toes as it gets rid of some adrenaline. Good luck.