I don't want to be Gay

[VirtualLouie]

Hi Everyone.

Basically, I am gay.

Why am I gay?
I don't want to be gay.

I have had sexual relations with three people, in the last 2 months and I am 17 years old.

What should I do about not wanting to be gay?

[KingLiam]

Firstly why don't you want to be gay, and secondly it is quite hard to force yourself from being gay and even then you will most likely still have feelings for men

[VirtualLouie]

I do not want to be gay because it is not considered the "normal" sexuality.

I know you will say, there is no such thing as normal. But I would just rather be like the majority of the worlds population.
I would like to be able to be with my partner in public and kiss them without feeling like I'm being watched and judged.

I know I can't force myself to not be Gay; because yes, I will still have feelings for men, but I just wanted to see if there are any other people like me.

[ValentinClarke]

I have felt like this before, because you want to be like everyone else, and just live life like anyone else. But there is nothing you can do, except from conditioning, which is only the very very extreme.

[Vermilion]

I do not want to be gay because it is not considered the "normal" sexuality.

I know you will say, there is no such thing as normal. But I would just rather be like the majority of the worlds population.
I would like to be able to be with my partner in public and kiss them without feeling like I'm being watched and judged.

I know I can't force myself to not be Gay; because yes, I will still have feelings for men, but I just wanted to see if there are any other people like me.

I don't think you can change I strongly believe that it's the way your born. You shouldn't stop being yourself to please others. It's not your fault that others can't except you. Some people will never change count yourself lucky your not in Russia.

[VirtualLouie]

I don't think you can change I strongly believe that it's the way your born. You shouldn't stop being yourself to please others. It's not your fault that others can't except you. Some people will never change count yourself lucky your not in Russia.

I also believe this. And I have tried to stop changing what I do to please others, but I find it hard. I just wish I was normal.

[Left Now]

I do not want to be gay because it is not considered the "normal" sexuality.

I know you will say, there is no such thing as normal. But I would just rather be like the majority of the worlds population.
I would like to be able to be with my partner in public and kiss them without feeling like I'm being watched and judged.

I know I can't force myself to not be Gay; because yes, I will still have feelings for men, but I just wanted to see if there are any other people like me.

First of anything,there is no full homosexuality or hetrosexuality unless they have become completely absolute and unchangeable according to envirmental and social conditions during growing up,or Genetics have completely provided a an absolute advantage for these traits to be revealed,which majority of people belong to first group.

Second,there is no way to change your sexual orientation if they have been firmed like what I said above,but there is a way to inactivate it as much as possible according to your physical and mental conditions.But I do not recommend it all because it can easily ruin you if your decision is not firm and you are not mentally prepared for it.

[Vermilion]

I get what you mean but normal for you is gay so be yourself easier said than done I know.

[VirtualLouie]

I get what you mean but normal for you is gay so be yourself easier said than done I know.

Okay... Thank you ;d

[runner 19]

Hi Everyone.

Basically, I am gay.

Why am I gay?
I don't want to be gay.

I have had sexual relations with three people, in the last 2 months and I am 17 years old.

What should I do about not wanting to be gay? if your gay that's okay. You can like whoever you want it's totally fine. I'm bi but pretty much like only guys. I learned that you should be happy with who u are and no one can change who you like.

[KingLiam]

if your gay that's okay. You can like whoever you want it's totally fine. I'm bi but pretty much like only guys. I learned that you should be happy with who u are and no one can change who you like.

I am exactly the same and totally agree just be who you are :)

[DoodleSnap]

Everyone has deep seated sub-concious feelings, some negative, some more positive. Homophobia and misunderstanding of sexuality often comes from a deep seated internal denial, and becomes very bottled up and concentrated. I think that it would be best for you to address these worries and fears, and find out why they make you feel the way you do. Address the issues, and take them clearly head on, and then approach how you feel about your sexuality. For what it is worth, I, and many others, would tell you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with any sexual orientation, as it is more important that you make of it what you want to, and feel comfortable liking who you like, rather than adhering to one of society's labels. Good luck.

[VirtualLouie]

Thank you everyone. You have really helped ;-)

[Babs]

If you're gay, there's nothing you can do to change it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being gay, so embrace it.

[Mil1dreded]

Yeah pretty much what everyone else said you can't help being gay and it is normal , these days I find everyone is so used to it no one really looks twice and sure there is homophobes out there but screw them just be happy and be the person you really are :)

[ATOMICskittles]

Hi Everyone.

Basically, I am gay.

Why am I gay?
I don't want to be gay.

I have had sexual relations with three people, in the last 2 months and I am 17 years old.

What should I do about not wanting to be gay?

Hey I'm gay too. Ultimately it comes down to the fact that you are gay and cannot change it. You will need to come out to yourself eventually. I support you, and and who cares if its "not normal"!!!

[Landbuscus97]

I also don't really like being gay. Honestly I don't know why people would think it's a choice because I would never choose to be gay. However, though I'm not proud of being gay, I'm not ashamed either. I'm sort of in the middle. I accept me being gay, but I don't think it's something to share with the world with pride. I quietly accept myself. Even if I'd never choose this way of life, it chose me and I just have to do the best I can. The only advice I can give you is for you to do the same!
Hope this helps!
-Landon