Slight Problem... WHat do you think...

[Sexiijimmie]

OK so me and my firend's friend just started talking on Yahoo! chat and we were very open about how we watched porn to each other, and after a while we confessed to both watching gay porn out of like curiosity and shit, and we both cammed naked together.

Now he is coming to this camp im going to during the summer and wants to suck my dick (No lie) and I dont know if that's such a good idea. He assures me it's just out of curiosity and we've like devised this master plan to do it too, but I just don't know if I should. What do you think i should do, do it, or back out and not do it?

[Mzor203]

I do not think it is a good idea to let him do it, as this could really make your friendship awkward and even break. And it just is not a good idea all around, especially if you get caught at the camp. Not only would you have some explaining to do, it might get out and everyone might shun you because they think you're gay. It is a dangerous thing to do and you should do nothing sexual with anyone until you are in a good strong relationship with someone you actually love.

[Sexiijimmie]

Well see that's just the thing.

I'm not gay, just a bit curious, and I kinda want to do it, but i dont know if i want the consiousness of getting my first bj from a guy.

I don't know him personally, and we've only been chatting for like a week now and I don't think we have a friendship to break.

[Mzor203]

Well if you don't know him, then no no no no you definately not do it AT ALL!!! The risks are too high, and with something like this it can make you feel guilty for a long time.

Also, you don't know what he's up to, so no, do not do it. If he brings it up just tell him you are not comfortable doing it. In fact, I think you should stay away from this guy.

Please, do the safe thing.

[Tyleisme]

This is one of those times where you are just going to have to say no, If you don't want to, that's all you have to do. I'm not going to question your morals or tell you if it's right or wrong as that isn't my place. You obviously have some doubts about it. He shouldn't force you to do anything that you don't want to do.

[notsure101]

it could damage ur friend ship dont do it

[notsure101]

What The Fuck

thats not really helpful please post something helpful please watch the language

[Close102]

there are a few problems i see

1)you could get STDs
2)you could get caught at camp
3)if you get caught your parents will probably be told about it
4)if you get caught other kids could find out about it and youd be rejected from society
5)kids at school could find out about it and youd be rejected from society again
6)this kid could want to have a serious relacionship and something bad could happen

there are many other resons to so just dont do it

[Sugaree]

I agree fully with Close.

It's best for him not to do it. Just ignore what he says and it will be over.

[dudesweet101]

Its up to you but the risk of getting caught is great.

[Oblivion]

I fully agree with close/beagle... But if your truly curious/gay don't be all secretive... Maybe go over to his house and 'Experiment' But dont go to far! And definitely talk to him about how it will affect your friendship with him

[Axellance]

It’s probably not a good idea to do this especially with a person you don’t know personally; there is a risk of abuse. He might actually be gay and attempt to pressure you into doing sexual acts that are even more risky. There is also an increased risk of getting an STD simply because of the fact that you do not know him personally and have no clue weather or not he sleeps around. There may also be guilt and regret due to the fact that you feel you did something wrong or you didn’t like it as much as you thought. It is not my place to tell you what is right or wrong, this is a choice you must base on your own morals, but I do feel that this is a risky act and you should give it a lot of serious thought before you do it!!

[Oblivion]

Wait, do you know this person in real life or just met them in 'Yahoo!' chat? If you met him online i change my answer to NO do not let him near you, and tell your parents/Yahoo! chat room admins that you were asked to meet someone... Well thats what i would do :) Maybe not as far as the parent admin thing...

[chris__robin]

he's not a stranger, the guy said it was a friend of a friend, and he saw him on cam its not like some child pedo could try to look like someone the same age as him.

its basically up to you ... if you are really curious and want to do it then go for it, but if you are having doubts, second thoughts or think you will regret it then maybe consider holding off.

he also said they arent really friends so theres no friendship to ruin. dont u guys read posts

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Jimmie, it's up to you. Be aware of the risks everyone has mentioned, and think about whether or not you want to do this. If you don't, or you can't seem to make a decision, tell him no. You can always change your mind at camp over the summer, if you really hit it off once you've met in person and you decide you want to do this after-all. But if you're not sure it's not good to promise him anything. He might get angry or feel hurt if you back out at the last minute, and it could have a real impact on your future relationships if you do this just because you feel pressure to. He may also decide he wants you to reciprocate, so think about whether you're ok with that, too. Take some time to think about it. And if you do decide to do this, take the initiative and bring a couple condoms (at least two, in case something should happen to compromise the first one. Wouldn't that be awkward: in the middle of the night, in the dark, hiding from any campers or counselors who might come across the two of you, and you open the condom only to realize that it's broken, or perhaps you get nervous and you drop it on the ground?). Especially since its your genitalia in question, not his, he may not bring one, and you'll want to be protected. Even if he says he's never done anything that would allow him to pick one up, you should insist or not go through with it. Also, also, people have mentioned that he may end up wanting more, but what about you? For a lot of people a blow job is a very intimate thing, and since you've never had one before, you don't know how you'll feel afterwards. You might go into this thinking it's just casual fun, but end up feeling bad because you realize you'd rather have a relationship than just fool around. It's not something to be taken lightly. Follow your heart (sorry, had to say it), and remember that you have a little while to make this decision. Nothing happens with this guy until you say the word, so take a deep breath and give yourself some time to work it out.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah i think that if i was u i will do it cuz thats the only way u can know and u never know u might like it

[Bryan B]

It's up to you.
If you are curious and u are sure of what you are going to do and consequences go ahead do it.

BUT ALL IT'S UP TO YOU

[Gumleaf]

just the simple fact that you are having doubts about says to me that you shouldn't do it.

[Requin]

What eveyone has said is true. DON'T do it, even if you want to do it, it could/would/might ruin the rest of your life. E.G getting STD's does ruin your life, i mean completley, not only could you ruin your life but someone elses and they'll hate you forever. P.S Tell us what you eventually did/or hopefully didn't do at the camp. Thanks, i think we'd be interested to know if you ruined your life. I think we got our points accross.

[sportyman1992]

dont do it... i rekon you should sit down with him and talk about it// and say how wrong it is even if u want to do it...its still wrong cause use are at camp.

[Dale]

yeh i would say not to do it, there is a possibility you could get raped.

[Avnd]

i guess or im sure ur answer should be no....caus if u not a gay den i think u shud allow a girl to do a bj n not a boy atall...n who knows if hes a gay or not...he might be one n just tryin to use u.....

[jimbo14]

Since you're not sure, I think you should say no at the very beginning. After you get to know him better at camp, you could always change your mind and still let him do it. When you meet him in person, you might not like him as much as you think you do now.

[LifeIsMyJoke]

If you don't know the guy, I wouldnt say damaging the friendship has anything to do with it.

But common sense must prevail, and I don't think its a good idea to be arranging an oral sex meeting with somebody who you have never met. Its very dangerous and could be potentially threatening to your lifestyle.

I'd take the safe option, block this guy from all contacts, and tell him you have changed your mind, and get on with your life :)

[Str8andcurious]

If you have created a master plan that makes it sound like you want to so i would go for it....... heck if you dont liek it just tell him nicely you dont want to do anymore

[marktheman]

It sounds like fun but I wouldn't make a definite arrangement before I got to meet him. If you're going to be at camp for a while, you have plenty of time to see what he's like before you do it.
I know how you feel. I would be very tempted but I hope I would have enough sense to wait until I met him.

[OneWorld]

Well, if hes clean, your choice.

[Patchy]

Well, if hes clean, your choice.

Please try to be a bit more constructive in future posts.

[Medical Kid]

dude im just going to give it to you straight, i have nothing worng with gays or bis but you dont even know him in real life! this is seriously a bad choice dude,

[curiousteen]

mainly its up to u if u want to do it go ahead, but if u dont then dont, its all up to u

[Vermillion]

Well see that's just the thing.

I'm not gay, just a bit curious, and I kinda want to do it, but i dont know if i want the consiousness of getting my first bj from a guy.

I don't know him personally, and we've only been chatting for like a week now and I don't think we have a friendship to break.
Well dude you just do what you want. I nor can anyone else here tell you what to do, but I however will say this much: At least know the guy first. He may have a new strand of mouth-AIDs or something XD
Extreme yes, but I'm sure you do have some kind of standards even when it comes down to "curiosity" I hope.