Want to keep relationship private

[smff]

I'm thinking of asking this girl out, but I would want to keep our relationship private if we do start going out. Just for a few weeks to see how things go, and it could be kind of fun to keep it private...

I just don't know how I'd say it to her, is there anything wrong with wanting to do this? How would you go about saying it to her?

[smff]

Anyone?

[lemondrop]

depends what's her "Taste" but i would offer just hangout and in the evening or so...tell her...

[Zachary G]

just explain to her how much you really like here and that you want to date her, but also how you would like to keep things quiet for the time being. I am sure once you tell her how and what you feel, she might be very understanding and accepting of it. But the only way to know is to ask.

[Bull]

My question would be: are you ashamed/embarrassed to be seen with her? It just seems wrong to me to not want it known that you dated her. Or, are you cheating on someone? I hope she turns you down.

[Vermilion]

My last relationship was kept private for about 4 month's, I quite liked that way no one getting involved. However I hated not being able to be there at school in front of everyone.

[ImCoolBeans]

My question would be: are you ashamed/embarrassed to be seen with her? It just seems wrong to me to not want it known that you dated her. Or, are you cheating on someone? I hope she turns you down.

I wouldn't go as far as to say I hope she turns you down, but I think it's kind of wrong to keep it so private as well, and might raise similar questions in her head, or make her feel like you think she isn't good enough.

[smff]

My question would be: are you ashamed/embarrassed to be seen with her? It just seems wrong to me to not want it known that you dated her. Or, are you cheating on someone? I hope she turns you down.

Honestly, I would want people to know we're together. She's someone I've liked for a long time now, and to be able to call her my girlfriend would be amazing. I would be open to telling close friends, I just don't want the whole school to know ten minutes after I ask her out.

[Vermilion]

Honestly, I would want people to know we're together. She's someone I've liked for a long time now, and to be able to call her my girlfriend would be amazing. I would be open to telling close friends, I just don't want the whole school to know ten minutes after I ask her out.

There's nothing wrong with that.

[Bull]

Honestly, I would want people to know we're together. She's someone I've liked for a long time now, and to be able to call her my girlfriend would be amazing. I would be open to telling close friends, I just don't want the whole school to know ten minutes after I ask her out.

Okay, but I still don't understand. However, good luck. Sorry I said I hope she turns you down.

[smff]

Okay, but I still don't understand. However, good luck. Sorry I said I hope she turns you down.

All good, thanks for the advice.