I'm out of his league?

[Shabbychic]

Hey guys!

so i need some help, my boyfriend of 3 weeks told me yesturday that before we went out he didnt think that he had a chance because he thought i was out of his league. i didnt quite know how to reply to that., if that waas you how would you react and think of it? please help me, i feel like i should talk to him about it and let him know that everything is ok, that even if he thinks that, that he wont loose me. Do you think that will be a good idea?


please reply soon, thanks :D:D

[Vermilion]

I'd ask him why he thought that and tell him that I couldn't ask for anything better than him.

[CRH99]

basically hes giving you a compliment, but also trashing himself, so what you do is blush, say thanks then tell him that he has a lot going for him.

[Uniquemind]

I'd blush, and say something smart like.

"Aww that's sweet, but I'm glad you made a move, because then you wouldn't have been able to experience this" *grabs chin and makes out heavily*

[Desiqn]

Nobody in this world is 'out of my league' we're all humans some different to others but I think it's a compliment..

[Babs]

Tell him that it doesn't matter whether you're in each other's league. What matters is that you like each other.

[Emerald Dream]

I really don't believe in the whole "out of my league" stuff. If you get to know someone on an individual basis instead of a predetermined judgment, then that doesn't exist.

I think he's trying to compliment you, but in a weird roundabout way.

[DoodleSnap]

Communication is the key to any good relationship; so speak to him! Asking each other about your feelings will help you bond and understand how things work. It sounds like he was making a throwaway and somewhat self-deprecating compliment, so tell him that you love him nonetheless and try to understand what his deeper feelings are. Speaking to each other breaks down barriers in a relationship, so that is my advice.