worried

[Parker13]

So I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and 3 weeks ago I tested him and he received the message but never responded to it since then I've tested him multiple times and he receives them all but doesn't respond he has never done this and I'm starting to get depressed please give me any suggestions thank you

[Bull]

Back off! He is sending you a message and you are being far too aggressive. Send one more text: "Hi, I miss you and would really like to hear from you." If he responds you will know how to respond. If he does not respond, DO NOT TEXT HIM again. If he wants to end the relationship he is a coward for not saying so. If there is some other problem he may not be able to face up to it with you. Only time will tell and in the meantime you need to give him a lot of space. Sorry you are being treated poorly. Good luck.

[Elysium]

Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow: Relationships and Dating

I agree with Billy. Express concern, and give him the space to decide what he wants to do and when. Badgering him won't help, no matter how anxious or upset you are. Respect him and he'll come to you if and when he's ready, and if not, then it's his loss.

[Parker13]

Back off! He is sending you a message and you are being far too aggressive. Send one more text: "Hi, I miss you and would really like to hear from you." If he responds you will know how to respond. If he does not respond, DO NOT TEXT HIM again. If he wants to end the relationship he is a coward for not saying so. If there is some other problem he may not be able to face up to it with you. Only time will tell and in the meantime you need to give him a lot of space. Sorry you are being treated poorly. Good luck.
He hasn't read any of the messages though

[Bull]

He hasn't read any of the messages though

I am confused. How do you know that he has not read the messages? At any rate I stand by my post. Back off. How old are you guys?

[Parker13]

I am confused. How do you know that he has not read the messages? At any rate I stand by my post. Back off. How old are you guys?
We're using kik it tells you if the message was delivered and if they read it and we're both 15

[Bull]

Ok, now I understand. Are you guys in the same school, club, or place where you see eachother on a regular basis? If so how is the relationship there? You said you had been "dating" for several months. Since neither of you drive, how did that happen? Just trying to get a better understanding of your situation.