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sunno111
April 18th, 2015, 07:23 AM
I have pretty much known I am gay since i was 9 (I'm 14 now) but just recently I have started noticing attractive women. Now i dont mean it in a sexual sense, but i look at them and actually want to BE them, like i would start imagining my life as them, clothing, make-up and all that kinda stuff. What does this mean? Could it be a passing phase?
Vermilion
April 18th, 2015, 07:27 AM
I think give it a while and see how you feel. Don't rush into anything.
Andyyy95
April 18th, 2015, 11:04 AM
I have pretty much known I am gay since i was 9 (I'm 14 now) but just recently I have started noticing attractive women. Now i dont mean it in a sexual sense, but i look at them and actually want to BE them, like i would start imagining my life as them, clothing, make-up and all that kinda stuff. What does this mean? Could it be a passing phase?
It might just be your hormones... But yeah, like what the previous poster wrote, perhaps you should just give yourself time and have a careful think about this all.
Andy
Zachary G
April 18th, 2015, 11:51 AM
dont rush to any conclusions just yet, it could just be a phase you are going through or you could be experiencing another side of your sexuality. either way, give it sometime and let it play itself out then see where it leads you. no worries, its okay.
Elysium
April 18th, 2015, 12:09 PM
I'd argue that these thoughts have little to do with your sexuality, and more to do with your gender identity. Have you explored that at all?
DoodleSnap
May 1st, 2015, 07:29 PM
I'd argue that these thoughts have little to do with your sexuality, and more to do with your gender identity. Have you explored that at all?
^^^Couldn't have said it better myself. Look into what gender identity is, and see how you feel you fit into the world. Good luck.
Hicham azad
May 2nd, 2015, 06:03 PM
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