Bad to not be sorry?

[SmokyChica]

This guy I used to date and have still been seeing for a while now told me last night that he kissed my close friend when we were together but unofficial. We promised we'd be exclusive and this is the fourth time he's done something I consider cheating. I told him I was tired to dealing with stuff like this and said maybe we should be both just be single now. Today his friends keep texting me saying I've made the biggest mistake and he's going to get someone much better than me and I should feel horrible that I "gave up on him." Is it bad that I don't feel sorry for what I did and I don't think it's a mistake?

[Vermilion]

This guy I used to date and have still been seeing for a while now told me last night that he kissed my close friend when we were together but unofficial. We promised we'd be exclusive and this is the fourth time he's done something I consider cheating. I told him I was tired to dealing with stuff like this and said maybe we should be both just be single now. Today his friends keep texting me saying I've made the biggest mistake and he's going to get someone much better than me and I should feel horrible that I "gave up on him." Is it bad that I don't feel sorry for what I did and I don't think it's a mistake?

No it's not bad, it shows your happy with your decision. His friends are being idiots just trying to get to you. You've probably saved yourself a lot of trouble by breaking up with him. Hopefully the next gf he has sees him for the really him before she gets hurt. Be happy that your happy :)

[Pat the Bunny]

You definitely didn't make a mistake. I think you already put up with too much, his friends texting you that you made a mistake is just something some guys do. If this keeps bugging you, just block him and his friends

[CRH99]

well based on what you said, hes an asshole with asshole friends and you should be happy to be rid of him. if you dont feel sorry when its over, you know it was bad, so dont try to feel sorry.

[Melodic]

You're right. You shouldn't be in a relationship you don't want to be in.

[Uniquemind]

Your ex-bf, just needs to find a girl who doesn't mind an open relationship.

That girl doesn't have to be you, you don't owe him anything. I think you understand this and I don't think you need to be sorry for your choices especially if you know what you want in a relationship.

Feel free to not answer this last question, but did you and your ex-bf that you just ended it with, have sexual intercourse or oral or anal sex yet?

If not, perhaps he has buyer's remorse for cheating and pissing you off and is trying to get some before he turns the tables and dumps you....because that happens and it sucks.

[Syzygy]

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[Daniella98]

Shouldnt it be him who should be sorry? He made the mistakes...
And SOME friend you have, saying he will find someone much better than you, like you werent the best he could ever get.

[Abhorrence]

His friends are just sticking up for him, they probably only know his side of the story. You shouldn't feel bad for doing what was right.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

Definitely not a bad descion at all. Obviously he just wants to go around and keeps falling back on to you when he has no one. Then he repeats. Good job!!

[Uniquemind]

To be honest friends need to stay out of your or other friend's love lives regarding decisions from the individual in a relationship to make-up or break-up.

A friend's only job is to ensure the safety of their friends dating someone else, if that criteria is met, then they need to back off.