shy

[-Confounded-]

when i get around this girl that i liked for almost a year i get really shy and im always grinning like an idiot.. i can never think of what to say to her even though shes in all of my classes and her lockers right next to mine. i used to be able to talk to her because my friend n her used to be dating.. now its like theres tension between us...

and now my other friend who is kind of a player is flirting with her all the time and when he does it feels like im getting stabbed in the chest.. i dont say anything though because i know hell try and set us up and i dont know if she wants to..im so weak i cant even talk when im around her... im not usually so shy... if my peers were not around i could probably talk to her easier... i want to become her friend and hopefully boy friend so bad but i cant.... im good looking get good grades( 70s to 90s) but im only a bit taller than her maybe an inch at the most..

also if i didnt masturbate for a day i get really horny when i see her and it's noticable through my baggy pants so sometimes i have to go get books to cover it or i have to push it down with my hand through my pocket.. is there any way to stop this from happening?

help :x

EDIT:i put im not good looking by accident lol

[TheWizard]

In person I'm really very shy. I can't talk to strangers at all and run away if they try to talk to me.

You are not alone.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

im the same way, i cant function with someone if im attracted to them. like i have nothing to say and if i do have to talk ill say totally stupid things and babble like an idiot

[quackoman]

I used to be like that, But then i realized you just have to loosen up.

Now i can talk to girls all i want and not feel ackward at all.

My biggest piece of advice is dont at ANY time be all "I like you." Its so juvenile.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

ya same here i have no prob around girls

[r3dl3g]

I'm also shy, when I'm around a girl that I like I stupid things, and it's hard for me to find things to talk about, but if the girl talks to me around my friends I usually loosen up a bit.

[teencrazykid]

I used to be shy but now Im okay. Sometimes it just takes time.....