vrginity :/

[aidzo]

just wondering, is it bad that im still a virgin at 17 (almost 18) or are there any of you in my situation?:confused:

[Vermilion]

just wondering, is it bad that im still a virgin at 17 (almost 18) or are there any of you in my situation?:confused:

I wouldn't say it's bad I'm in the same boat as you I'm 17 going on 18 :)

[Hideous]

Don't feel bad. Don't rush to lose it either. If you want to lose it, go ahead, if you don't, then you can wait for the right person.

[Mil1dreded]

It's not that bad I've lost it but I don't get people coming up to me asking if I've had sex or not most people don't care you lose it when you want to lose it

[Hideous]

It's not that bad I've lost it but I don't get people coming up to me asking if I've had sex or not most people don't care you lose it when you want to lose it

I agree.

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Typically, it's no one's business to know whether or not you're a virgin. It's okay if you're still a virgin.

[SethfromMI]

I am not a virgin but being one is nothing to feel bad about whatsoever

[Snydergate]

Bro I am 20 come Friday and I am still a virgin lol. Its not big deal

[WanderingHeart]

Who cares, no big deal. Not being a virgin doesn't make ypu any cooler or better than a virgin.

[Typhlosion]

*shrugs*

The whole idea of guys losing their virginity ASAP is kinda silly imho. Don't beat up yourself for it, and enjoy the moment with someone who understands (not superficial).

In the same boat, mate!

[rioo]

Don't rush into it. You are male and believe me there is no one people can notice your virginity by just seeing your body or even you naked.

[Abhorrence]

I know it's easy enough to say don't worry about it but I understand how much pressure there is in this day with people constantly talking about it, with the media shoving it down everyone's throats, etc. It also probably doesn't help that on this site every 13 year old has apparently fucked sixteen people.
Honestly it does not matter. Most people do lie about it anyway. Wait until you find an amazing person who you truly love. Comfort is key in losing your virginity, I think. If you're not comfortable it is not worth it at all.

[Uranus]

It's not bad at all!
Even though so many people nowadays are losing it at such young ages, doesn't mean you have to. I understand it might be depressing because you haven't lost it, but worry not. You will get to experience it sooner or later.

[Babs]

Don't worry, dude. Just do your thing. It's perfectly okay to still be a virgin, just as it is okay to not be one.

[jacshamy]

just wondering, is it bad that im still a virgin at 17 (almost 18) or are there any of you in my situation?:confused:

are you a virgin like completely? Like you have never had any sexual contact at all? Or are you a virgin because you haven't had penetrative sex? i don't think either is bad fwiw.

[KingLiam]

It's not bad there's nothing more than society saying that you should have sex at 16 have sex when u feel ready

[Bull]

I am 18 and a virgin by choice. Haven't met that special person yet. Not worried, no hurry.

[KingLiam]

I am 18 and a virgin by choice. Haven't met that special person yet. Not worried, no hurry.

Good on you :D

[kev99]

No, it isn't bad at all. It is best to wait for the right person, I think.

[CosmicNoodle]

Nobody dies a virgin, life fucks us all.

[Melodic]

I'm still a virgin and I'm turning 17 in September. Do I regret it? No. I'm not ready to have sex or deal with what could happen after I had sex.

[HUSTLEMAN]

Don't sweat it you're fine. I'm still a virgin and I'm 17. Don't rush into anything as you may regret it.

[Syzygy]

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[Uniquemind]

I have two different reactions to this.

The wiser part of me says wait for the right time and person.

But then a part of me says seize the opportunity when it presents itself because YOLO.


The first reaction is based on my own experience where I wish I had given it to the right person.

But the second reaction is based on a friend of mine who was waiting for the right time and person and never got to experience the act at all because of a fatal tornado which killed my friend.

The only middle ground advice I can give is if you decide to do it, get consent, get an education about what to do, and use protection the way it is supposed to be used.

[jacshamy]

Don't sweat it you're fine. I'm still a virgin and I'm 17. Don't rush into anything as you may regret it.

Yeah this. Only do it when you're ready. Nobody should ever force you to do it.

[LeilaValy]

It doesn't matter at all, that's your life and your choices. You're not going to lose your virginity to some fuckboy at school, just to prove other people that you can be an easy girl, right?

[Alien djinn]

It's totally okay to be a virgin at 18. Nowadays every one Does it very young but you know, our society today is fucked up. Our parents and grand-parents sometimes had to wait untill 20-25 years old. But today everyone talks about it so it's hard, you get frustrated, that's why i lost it with a woman that i didn't even know.

[ChickenCasseroleYum]

=] I turned 20 at the end of March so I'm not even a teen any more and I'm still a virgin. But that's just because having sex isn't something inconsequential to me. I don't want it to mean nothing and just be about physical pleasure. But then, sexuality and sex means different things to different people. You should think about whether or not keeping your virginity is good for you and not about whether it's lame or uncool or w/e.

[Ridonks_CB]

I'm still a virgin, too. To be honest, I dont understand where the idea of needing to lose your virginity quickly or else that's bad had come from...It's really stupid though

[Unknwn]

I'm 18 right now and still a virgin. I'm ok with it tbh, I don't really care that I'm still a virgin lol :)

[Alien djinn]

I'm 18 right now and still a virgin. I'm ok with it tbh, I don't really care that I'm still a virgin lol :)

good bro

[akselj]

Not at all. A lot of people still are, and it's really no big deal.