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CreativeUsername
April 14th, 2015, 12:07 PM
Ok, before I get into what happened recently, I'll give you a little background on my situation. I have very high levels of social anxiety, and so I joined a teen anxiety group. In the first few weeks, there was a girl there who was really nice to everybody, but especially nice to me, or so it seemed. So I liked, her and it seemed like she liked me. But I thought it would never go anywhere if I said anything because she's a senior and I'm a freshman, and we don't go to the same school, and the anxiety group is the only time I ever see her.

So now we're here today, and we just finished the 12 weeks of the group, she's moving to a different group, and I'm either staying in the same group or not going to any group at all. And when we were leaving the group she went out of her way to say goodbye and when she did she just reached and brushed my shoulder. It probably doesn't seem like much and it might not be, but then after that my dad was saying that she liked me. Along with the teen group, there is also a parent's group, where he talks a lot with the girl's mom, and say that to go along with everything he's heard from the mom and seen when we talk to each other that he thinks she likes me.

Basically I mainly needed to vent, but also just wanted to know if other people think the same thing, or what. Just mainly what do people think.

MadManic
April 14th, 2015, 04:27 PM
I think she really could like you. Especially based on your dad sayig what he's heard from his mom. Especially in a teen anxiety group maybe she didn't know another way to express her feelings without psyching herself out

Abhorrence
April 14th, 2015, 04:47 PM
Maybe try to see her outside of the group? You never know what could happen.

CreativeUsername
April 14th, 2015, 06:55 PM
Maybe try to see her outside of the group? You never know what could happen.

Yea, but I don't have her phone number or any way of contacting her. I don't know how to find her at all.

Abhorrence
April 16th, 2015, 03:33 PM
Yea, but I don't have her phone number or any way of contacting her. I don't know how to find her at all.

Facebook? Do you know her name?

CreativeUsername
April 16th, 2015, 06:30 PM
Facebook? Do you know her name?

Not her last name. It was a group, we were there to deal with our anxiety, not to become facebook friends. It was just first name.