Indecent Exposure AKA Flashing.

[Abbeys]

I hope the mods allow this thread because most females on reaching puberty and even some before could experience this.

So this is what’s happened to me.

I go to an all girl school which is situated on a very quiet country lane.

I walk to school and at picking up and dropping off time there are always cars parked at the side of the road.
Recently I noticed a guy,middle aged I suppose he could be described as,the moment I walked by his car,he lifted a map that he was apparently studying and it exposed his erect penis which he was masturbating!!!
I was shocked and disgusted and it made me feel sick,which I did when I got to school.

I should say that only one side of the road is paved and I have to walk past his car to get to school,it’s also a school rule.So I can’t avoid him,obviously I don’t look in to the car now but I can see him checking his mirror I presume to see If I’m coming along and maybe other girls too.

That in itself is bad enough but I learnt today the guy in the car is the father of one of my friends at school.
I really don’t know what to do,I can’t tell my friend,I can’t tell the school and if my dad found out he would kill this guy or at the very least put him in hospital!!!

I don’t know how to stop it.

I can’t face going to school anymore.

If anybody has any ideas how I can stop this without it getting out of control I would love to hear.

[Jeniferdelion]

I think you should report him and you should feel good about it. I can understand the pressure to tell but you could also do it anonymously with a note under principal's door.

[Daniella98]

I think you should report him and you should feel good about it. I can understand the pressure to tell but you could also do it anonymously with a note under principal's door.

Agree.
If its possiple to report him anonymously it might be better. Unless your friend (who definitely would know about it) would wonder who reported her dad and what people might say behind ver back. Hmm its difficult this.

[Abbeys]

Thanks Jeni and Dani.

An anonymous report is defiantly a good idea and not something I had thought of.

If the school sent a notice to all pupils that somebody has been acting inappropriately and to report anything,that could be enough to frighten him off.

I hope.

Maybe a letter sent snail mail to the school.

I will see if I can think of a good way of putting it.

[Daniella98]

Great. I hope he learns to behave and the problem solved

[Taryn98]

You should tell a parent, school counselor or call the police. What he is doing is against the law and he should be held responsible for his actions.

[Shortie]

Only one thing to do, tell someone in authority.

[Ridonks_CB]

Igh >~< That really is disturbing
I can't agree more with everyone else on here, you should tell an authority. As for your friend, this is obviously going to involve her as well and you should try to be there for her if anything goes wrong.

[Abbeys]

Thank you.

You are all so kind.

I mentioned to my friend what happened,she edits the school magazine.

She immediately sent out an alert via text,email to all pupils and staff.

The guy wasn’t there this morning.

I hope this is the end of it!

Abbey

XXX

[Daniella98]

Brilliant solution

[disisfauslaut]

If he ever appears again you should deffinently tell someone. He is a creep. Hope everything is okay and stay safe.xx

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Thank you.

You are all so kind.

I mentioned to my friend what happened,she edits the school magazine.

She immediately sent out an alert via text,email to all pupils and staff.

The guy wasn’t there this morning.

I hope this is the end of it!

Abbey

XXX
Abbey ALL the replies you got were correct so I did not post only to repeat what has been said, I just hope all is ok now and it's over and done with.
Take Care XX :)

[Abbeys]

Abbey ALL the replies you got were correct so I did not post only to repeat what has been said, I just hope all is ok now and it's over and done with.
Take Care XX :)

Hi Angie.

It never occurred to me that you didn't post,not because it wouldn't have been welcome because of course it would!:)

I think on a board like this,people have different strengths and levels of experience and I think this was a tricky one but has already been mentioned I got some great help straight away which pointed me in the right direction.

But,yes I hope it's the end of it,I don't think I will ever be able to walk down that road without thinking about it.

And the best thing is,my friend will be ok and hopefully the police won't need to be involved.

Lots of love,

Abbey

XXXX

[sunnieseason]

I think you should film him in the act with your phone so he gets busted! What a creep!

[Abbeys]

I think you should film him in the act with your phone so he gets busted! What a creep!

Your right!

But it was such a shock I didn't know what to do.

He hasn't been back…………yet.

If he does come back and do it again, that's a f****** good idea!!

[Beth]

I think you should film him in the act with your phone so he gets busted! What a creep!

Your right!

But it was such a shock I didn't know what to do.

He hasn't been back…………yet.

If he does come back and do it again, that's a f****** good idea!!

It would be a very good idea and make sure you have a good close up of his face for identification. Very strong evidence.

[Abbeys]

It would be a very good idea and make sure you have a good close up of his face for identification. Very strong evidence.


I will!!!

XX

[Ridonks_CB]

Hoping things go well for you all xxxx

[Hailey01]

thats sick! ive had a friends dad look at my boobs while i was at her house but nothing like that! i would report him to a teacher or principle right away

[Donnaw]

Get his registration number and pass it on to the police. tell them when and where he is there. Im sure you wont see him again.

[Uniquemind]

Wait so the friend that runs the school paper?

Is it the same friend whose dad is doing this? If it is that's super ironic of a solution.

[Abbeys]

Wait so the friend that runs the school paper?

Is it the same friend whose dad is doing this? If it is that's super ironic of a solution.


NO it's not.

[rachel_ballet]

I agree with everyone else by saying that you should at least notify the police or school security if you have that!
You should have pointed at him and started laughing!

[jenni31]

I agree with all the girls to report him anonymously. I know your friend is going to be embarrassed by it but it is the right thing to do because it can hurt many people to emotionally

[Ridonks_CB]

I agree with everyone else by saying that you should at least notify the police or school security if you have that!
You should have pointed at him and started laughing!

What would laughing at him achieve?

[tiffany1]

definitely report him

[goodnightxmoonx]

NO it's not.

lol i was wondering the same thing!

Anyway, hope everything is going alright for you now and that it's all settled... Sending my best wishes your way xx

[Abbeys]

lol i was wondering the same thing!

Anyway, hope everything is going alright for you now and that it's all settled... Sending my best wishes your way xx

Thanks Dana,

I appreciate your concern.

The guy did come back and started doing the same disgusting things again!!!

But it has been sorted now…I think!!!

XXXX

[Ridonks_CB]

Thanks Dana,

I appreciate your concern.

The guy did come back and started doing the same disgusting things again!!!

But it has been sorted now…I think!!!

XXXX
I really hope so. Just know that you can do something about it. xxxx

[Abbeys]

I really hope so. Just know that you can do something about it. xxxx


Thanks Crystal.

Hopefully it's over.

One of the worst periods of my life and I've had a few of them.

XXXX

[SarahFox]

he needs to go to jail right now, for a very long time. Flasher today, rapist tomorrow.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

I wonder why he did that? What did he expect you to do?

[Emerald Dream]

I wonder why he did that? What did he expect you to do?

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