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bluelove93
April 13th, 2015, 07:46 PM
:confused:I wish I could date one of my friends that's a girl but she's married and is straight. I have sexual dreams about every night. And I don't know if I'm a lesbian or bi or just straight. If anyone can help me out please.

WanderingHeart
April 14th, 2015, 04:55 PM
Okay, well...

Sorry to say but if she is married and straight, you have no choice but to move on. It works the same way for a guy that likes a girl whose married. You just have to move on.

As for your sexuality I can't answer that as I don't have enough information on you.

bluelove93
April 15th, 2015, 07:23 AM
i know that but its hard for she lives on the same street and its a dead end

cheergurl
April 16th, 2015, 04:13 PM
Has she said or done anything to make you think she's interested in you?

WanderingHeart
April 16th, 2015, 04:59 PM
I know it's really hard but that's your only option. Unless you want to tell her how you feel, then :-/

Abbeys
April 16th, 2015, 05:00 PM
i know that but its hard for she lives on the same street and its a dead end


"its a dead end"

Sorry to take your own words out of context but this pretty much sums the situation up.

bluelove93
April 16th, 2015, 05:04 PM
To me it's kinda of hard to tell but in my opinion I would say yes but then no she doesn't show interest and I have told her how I feel about her and she's ok with it but I'm not so sure she is. Because we use to hang out a lot and ever sense I told I like her it seems she's pushing me back

Abbeys
April 16th, 2015, 05:33 PM
To me it's kinda of hard to tell but in my opinion I would say yes but then no she doesn't show interest and I have told her how I feel about her and she's ok with it but I'm not so sure she is. Because we use to hang out a lot and ever sense I told I like her it seems she's pushing me back

I was gong to say and now I wish I had,is,don't tell her how you feel because if you do she may distance herself from you.

I'm sorry I didn't.

XXX

bluelove93
April 16th, 2015, 05:34 PM
It's ok no worries

WanderingHeart
April 16th, 2015, 06:01 PM
I guess you just have to move on, then?

bluelove93
April 16th, 2015, 06:03 PM
Yea I know it's just hard

WanderingHeart
April 16th, 2015, 09:40 PM
I wish you the best of luck >_<. We're all here for you if you need anything.

bluelove93
April 17th, 2015, 06:30 AM
thank you

cheergurl
April 25th, 2015, 07:16 PM
I think you did the right thing. I've learned the regrets that are the hardest to get past are the chances you didn't take. Now you won't wonder what might've happened and you know you were honest, good for you!!

jenni31
April 28th, 2015, 06:18 PM
while you may have dreams about this girl you have to respect her that she's married. you what not like it if someone cheated on you right? so it's ok to have dreams and if you have to you and your horny and wet masturbate its ok we can fantasize and masturbate about people we love and want but do not try to break up a marriage because you're infatuated with this person

bluelove93
May 5th, 2015, 01:14 PM
i would never do that to her she is to good to me

jenni31
May 9th, 2015, 05:26 PM
awesome that is very very awesome to hear... But what is it about you that excited you and that you wavy her

LITTLEANGEL19
May 10th, 2015, 11:09 AM
Thinking the way you do only means your curious, but your friend been married is a problem, if you make your feelings known to her you could loose her as a friend, and am sure you don't want that to happen. So it's best just left as a fantasy.
If you are curious about girls am sure you can find one that's more suitable.