What does he want from me?

[Dalcourt]

There's this guy living in my neighborhood. We are classmates and as our Dads are friends we sometimes hang out together.
He knows I'm gay and usually we don't really get along cuz he makes mean gay jokes and says I'm girly or whatever bullshit.

During spring break we spent much time together as is buddy was away visiting family somewhere. So we spent a lot of time together...we talked without him being mean. And he "accidentally touched" me a lot.

He said I'm cute and nit girly at all and not like he thought gay people are. He just acted totally different.
I stayed at his place for the night and he asked if he could put his arm around me when we sleep...I found it weird but he just said he sleeps better like that.

When I asked if he was gay or wanted experimenting he just laughed.

I dunno? Does he make fun of me or what does he want?

[NickTheStar]

He's in the closet. He's bi curious. My advice is don't seek a serious relationship. He will never have the heart to leave the closet. Dont get attached. Give him what he wants. Be aggressive. But don't get close.

[Wafflenado]

I think he's definitely at least curious, and I think he's just seeing how far he can get with you. The fact that he laughed when you asked if he wanted to experiment means he definitely does because that's what I used to do when I wasn't out yet and people asked if I was gay. Whether you want to experiment with him is on you though

[Dalcourt]

He's in the closet. He's bi curious. My advice is don't seek a serious relationship. He will never have the heart to leave the closet. Dont get attached. Give him what he wants. Be aggressive. But don't get close.

I think he's definitely at least curious, and I think he's just seeing how far he can get with you. The fact that he laughed when you asked if he wanted to experiment means he definitely does because that's what I used to do when I wasn't out yet and people asked if I was gay. Whether you want to experiment with him is on you though

Hm, yeah...well I'm really just not sure what to think of it. Usually I'm really good at sensing whether a guy is gay or bi but with him I really can't tell. I always feel like he's making fun of me somehow...dunno.
The whole sleeping in his bed with him was kinda ...weird...and I have no idea whether I'm attracted to him or not.
It's not that I have many options here...but yeah I can't tell what he wants...and I don't even known if I want him to want me if that makes any sense at all.

[Hudor]

I guess he's curious at the very least. That he keeps making fun of you being gay and gay guys in general makes me feel he could be in the closet and in denial of his sexuality. That's what someone who was repressing it would do.
He said I'm cute and not girly at all and not like he thought gay people are.That i guess points towards the fact he had a negative perspective of gays(which is not so uncommon)

All in all, i guess wait a bit and let him make it clear what he wants. it's up to you after that to decide where you guys want to take it. For now just wait and watch

[Zachary G]

sounds to me like he is dealing with some issues of his own and is terribly confused about it all, but he probably sees in you what he really wants to be and feels safe by that. dont get involved with him relationship wise, but keep him as a friend and if he ever feels that he might want to experiment and you feel okay with it, then go for it. other than that i would say keep it platonic and dont get wrapped up in in his sexuality issues.