View Full Version : Im in a perplexing situation
Slimjim7
April 10th, 2015, 06:58 PM
So, I had this crush on a girl for about 2 months and i am in a confusing situation for me. First of all, I need help. I think she knows that I like her but I am not sure. Does she like me or not? Well...., That why I am here, to find out. I have caught her staring at me. In ELA, NDI and other subjects. She hasn't talked with me for a long time. The last time I talked to her was in mid February. She never is around me and when she is, she doesn't even make eye contact with me. She acts differently when she is around me. Everything is sort of awkward. In the last day of school before break she was trying to make me jealous of her. She was saying out loud how she liked this other guy, a friend of mine. Then she calls another of my friends ugly and she starts playing with him. Then the guy said "That's why you liked me!". Anyways I think she is trying to catch my attention. Does She like me or not? I don't think so personally, but maybe she does. Sorry for making this sooo long, but I really need help. Thank you
Sincerely,
Slimjim7
jxmes
April 10th, 2015, 07:19 PM
OK so im going 2 be real with u, the best way u can go around this situation is being really confident and talking to her instead of thinking in the old "DOES she like me???she looked at me" kind of way.. just get to know her and if she has no interest in you, NO BIG DEAL,, just move on, theres plenty of girls. (PS I understand its hard to find confidence in these kinda social situations but its the best thing u can do to help urself move forward socially)
Tesserax
April 11th, 2015, 10:48 AM
Here's my best bet: Your mind is playing tricks on you.
It tends to happen when you have a crush, you think about all the positives but not the negatives, and it's hard to look at both sides. You'll get used to it though
DoodleSnap
April 11th, 2015, 07:39 PM
No one else but her can really know; let alone someone on the other side of the world on the internet. I think the best thing you can do is find out for yourself. Guess work will only get one so far, but dropping hints, hanging out, and getting to know someone is how you build a relationship. Finding confidence may be difficult at first, but give it a go. Good luck.
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