How. Does. This. Keep. Happening?!?!?

[mrmee]

I had a girlfriend throughout elementary school starting in kindergarten, ending in 5th grade when she moved away. She moved back in 9th grade and we started seeing each other again. Then I caught her cheating, gave a second chance, and caught her cheating again. We were not in good terms when she moved away again halfway through this year (10th grade). So I met a different, really good looking girl a few months ago who just so happens to go to the school my ex goes to. We started dating and yet another girl at my school stopped talking to me as soon as she heard about me and the other girl at my ex's school. I found out she was cheating on me, and soon after found out the girl at my school stopped talking to me because she liked me too. Now we're dating and within the last week, both my ex's have come crawling back saying how they were wrong and how they never should have let me go. The whole nine yards.

So here's the real problem.
1of then I have known forever and have A LOT of history with.
The newest ex is the hottest girl I have ever seen and has a fairly convincing story about how she was t cheating
My current girlfriend is decent looking and I see everyday all day, but it's almost like we're friend zoning each other, even though we are dating.
And now I have no idea how to deal with any of this whole mess, especially Because my 2 ex's say they have been heartbroken nonstop since we broke up..

[MadManic]

well the first girl needs to be left in the dust. sorry for her but anyone who cheats on somebody doesn't deserve a second chance. The second girl, listen to her story and determine for yourself what you believe and go from there. your current girlfriend, as it seems to me, isn't the right fit for you. That was obvious when you called her "decent looking" and if you're friend zoning each other already jet let her know you just want to be friends. So rundown: 1st girls out of the question, second girl is worth your interest, poor girlfriend should be let go and free to find some other guy. Just my opinion. good luck man

[xXoblivionXx]

This^^

I think you and your current girlfriend would be really good friends, nothing more. So regardless of if you decide to get back with your 2nd ex, maybe you should break up with your "friend zoned" girlfriend

[ImCoolBeans]

If I caught somebody cheating on me I would have a hard time letting them back into my life. There is a saying "fuck me once, shame on you. fuck me twice, shame on me." You've already been burned by both of those girls, are you really going to let her do it again?

If your relationship with your current girlfriend isn't where you want it to be in terms of intimacy then you should try to talk to her about it and see if you can work it out, unless your heart really isn't in it. Sometimes in a relationship you need to break the ice. But like I said, if your heart isn't in it, then perhaps you aren't meant to be.