Log in

View Full Version : Straight A's and completely screwed...Scholorship Woes


mariozplaze
April 7th, 2015, 05:02 PM
I been raised to value my education and I have done that, throughout my entire high school career, I have maintained a near 4.0 GPA. My mom always told me that scholarships would beg for people with the grades I have! (Not to mention that I have taken some honors and early college courses as well.) What my mom didn't know is that things have changed, almost all the scholarships I have seen value a students community ties and extra-cirriculars more than their actual academic achievment.
I haven't done any community service hours or joined any extra-cirriculars, and I'm graduating in two months. I'm just too shy of a person to be outgoing like some of these kids who are in student counsel, sports, and the honor society. So while all these kids dance off to their party-college with their full-ride scholarships, I'll be in my little corner with my outstanding grades and a multi-thousand dollar debt. I've still applied for some of these scholarships, but I'm sure I won't win them.
My point here is this: What should I do? Do any of you guys have this same struggle?

Desuetude
April 8th, 2015, 04:38 PM
I'm in a similar situation but in the UK and I'm a year younger than you which has given me a but more time to start getting in those volunteering hours but also, like you, I'm a pretty introverted person who doesn't feel comfortable applying to the school councils and I've given up all sports so applying to the prestigious universities (application has to be in by September >.<) is stressing me out because they expect so much extra research and activities to prove that you're passionate (haha bad word) about the subject its unreal.

Honestly, from all the lectures and open days I've been to so far, although these extra aspects are a massive boost to set you apart from other applicants, unis top focus will still be your end grade and from what I know about American school systems a 4.0 is considered a brilliant GPA so you still have a good chance of gaining that scholarship. They won't just brush off how much work you've had to put in to get those grades. With the early college courses that will hopefully set you apart to show them that you're serious about the courses you're hoping to take and are willing to put in the extra work.

Don't give up on yourself so easily, you don't know what outcome will be just yet and at this point. But I'm sorry to say, the only thing you can do is hope that they'll see past the lack of extracurricular. I know that'll probably stress you out until you hear back. Its unlucky how you only just realised they asked for the other activities on top of grades you could have done something about it, now though its a bit hard to.

mariozplaze
April 8th, 2015, 07:46 PM
I'm in a similar situation but in the UK and I'm a year younger than you which has given me a but more time to start getting in those volunteering hours but also, like you, I'm a pretty introverted person who doesn't feel comfortable applying to the school councils and I've given up all sports so applying to the prestigious universities (application has to be in by September >.<) is stressing me out because they expect so much extra research and activities to prove that you're passionate (haha bad word) about the subject its unreal.

Honestly, from all the lectures and open days I've been to so far, although these extra aspects are a massive boost to set you apart from other applicants, unis top focus will still be your end grade and from what I know about American school systems a 4.0 is considered a brilliant GPA so you still have a good chance of gaining that scholarship. They won't just brush off how much work you've had to put in to get those grades. With the early college courses that will hopefully set you apart to show them that you're serious about the courses you're hoping to take and are willing to put in the extra work.

Don't give up on yourself so easily, you don't know what outcome will be just yet and at this point. But I'm sorry to say, the only thing you can do is hope that they'll see past the lack of extracurricular. I know that'll probably stress you out until you hear back. Its unlucky how you only just realised they asked for the other activities on top of grades you could have done something about it, now though its a bit hard to.

I really do appreciate this answer, but its not the college acceptance I am worried about, because taking early college courses guarantees acceptance into our local community college. What I am worried about is earning scholarships to pay for college. I feel like you have it easy in the UK in this aspect, college is free there if I'm not mistaking.

I do know what you're saying, I try to keep my confidence up, because you never know, I might get lucky!

SethfromMI
April 9th, 2015, 09:22 AM
a 4.0is still going to get you academic scholarships, many of those focus just on the academic aspect

BlackParadePixie
April 11th, 2015, 02:21 AM
You could go to community college for a year or two and partake in some of the community opportunities there...then see if you can get a scholarship for your last 2 years at a big school.

NickTheStar
April 11th, 2015, 02:39 AM
Do volunteer work. Go work for habit for humanity. Resumes and applications are about knowing how to bullshit accurately and correctly. I know a weed man who says on his application he has 6 years of door to door sales experience. Spend the next month of this year finding things you can accurately use to bullshit on a college app.

Human
April 14th, 2015, 02:26 PM
Volunteering and these extra-curricular skills are actually important, and a lot of places will look for them because it doesn't matter if you have straight As if you can't perform well in the job.

queenofcontrariety
April 14th, 2015, 02:33 PM
I mean you can get an academic scholarship if nothing else. I'm a little shocked you didn't know you needed to do extracurriculars and get involved in your community, it's a big part of getting accepted not just getting scholarships. I hate to say it but you're a little late to change things for yourself, but atleast now everyone else knows

Unknwn
April 14th, 2015, 03:24 PM
I kinda went through the same thing last year when I graduated high school.
I was also one of my school's top students, and I am also introverted so I didn't participate in extra curricular activities much. When I applied to scholarships, I did notice that many of them asked about extra things I had done (for example, clubs and stuff like that). I was able to list a couple of things, but I tried to focus mostly on my academics.
It turns out I didn't end up getting any of those scholarships, but the school I ultimately decided to attend did give me a very large scholarship based on my academics, so, in that case, I was lucky.

I think it might be too late to do hours or extra-curricular activities since you graduate in 2 months, but then again, who knows. If you already applied to schools, they might be able to give you scholarships and they usually look at your grades, your test scores, your needs, and stuff like that to decide whether they can give it to you or not, so this might be your best option.