Would it be weird to tell her what she means to me?

[smff]

I'm really close with this girl, I'm pretty sure I have feelings for her, but I feel like I care about her more than she cares about me.

At the moment we're on school holiday, I haven't seen her for a few days and I don't think I'll see her until school starts again. I want to text her and just tell her how much she means to me, without seeming creepy or like I'm coming on to her.

Would it be weird for me to just say that I really appreciate her and that I'm always here for her?

[Uniquemind]

Words are cheap.

Plan a nice date instead and keep your mouth shut because you run the risk of coming across as needy.

It's also an internal desire of yours to express this verbally with the expectation it'll beg or lead a certain positive and favorable reaction to you, and the reality is it may not.

[Abhorrence]

It wouldn't be weird at all to say you appreciate her. But I guess her reaction depends on who she is, without knowing that detail people can't really help you. If you feel it is necessary then do it.

[SethfromMI]

It wouldn't be weird at all to say you appreciate her. But I guess her reaction depends on who she is, without knowing that detail people can't really help you. If you feel it is necessary then do it.

Jack hit the nail on the head. some girls wouldn't think it would be weird at all. some would. also, a text is not the best way to tell such an important thing to someone

[Uniquemind]

Jack hit the nail on the head. some girls wouldn't think it would be weird at all. some would. also, a text is not the best way to tell such an important thing to someone

I can agree with this as well.

If you are going to confess do it face to face, also because you will be able to see non-verbal body language response on their part which may yield more information on whether they mean what they verbally say if they are being vague verbally.

[Uranus]

Well apparently you know her really well, so I don't think it would be weird as if it would be if you barely knew her. So no. But I would suggest telling her in person rather than a text. She will feel that you're being more serious, rather than a simple text message.

[Anastaysha Marie]

absolutely not. Say what you wanna say. Don't be a creep about it, but she should definitely know

[Anastaysha Marie]

Jack hit the nail on the head. some girls wouldn't think it would be weird at all. some would. also, a text is not the best way to tell such an important thing to someone

preach it. These guys got it right:yes: