Is there something wrong with me?

[Nath]

I've been out with quite a few girls so far, 4 and before and short after the date I always thought I'd really like them. Three were really smart, we shared interests and they looked really good. The last one was incredibly hot and we didn't share any interests but we still had lots of fun. The thing is, that about 2 days after the date, even though we always had plans for a second date, my interest just kinda disappeared. As if someone flipped a switch. I know they all really liked me since they kept chatting with me and often started the conversation, but I always lost interest and as soon as that happened, I just stopped initiating the chats and did nothing to maintain them. The thing is I always gave them the feeling that I really liked them and that I wanted more and then just stopped. Am I a bad person?

[Tesserax]

[WARNING]
The following may arouse some psychological trauma. Do not read if you believe this may produce negative effects

I'm not an expert, but this feels like a psychological problem. Be warned, what I'm about to say might bring up something that you might not like. Think about why you lose interest, what's the reason? Maybe you had a bad experience in the past, not necessarily with a relationship, but with your mother. Maybe you feel subconscious fear of being abandoned, and as a result your brain blocks it out the moment you feel a two-way attachment to girls, similar to the attachment one would feel with their mother, obviously without the sexual part. Some things are hard to explain, but you have to think back to your past, because there are a lot of factors from your past that affect your present mental state. So no, you're not a bad person, but clearly there's something you need to work out. I'll list a few ideas:
1. Previously faced rejection
2. Abandonment fears with mother
3. Something else happened with mother
4. Observed similar occurrence between mother and father
Sorry if this hurts in any way, I'm just trying to help