getting horny without being hard...

[DylanDanger]

sorry if this question is stupid or not in right section or whatever. never asked anything like this but i'm kinda worried.

for the past several days i have gotten horny/aroused, but havent gotten hard. used to get hard whenever aroused. i'm just worried that it has been 3 days since last got hard. is this normal?

[Uniquemind]

sorry if this question is stupid or not in right section or whatever. never asked anything like this but i'm kinda worried.

for the past several days i have gotten horny/aroused, but havent gotten hard. used to get hard whenever aroused. i'm just worried that it has been 3 days since last got hard. is this normal?

I think that's a question for a doctor.

It could be indicating a heart condition.

[Cloud_Strife]

sorry if this question is stupid or not in right section or whatever. never asked anything like this but i'm kinda worried.

for the past several days i have gotten horny/aroused, but havent gotten hard. used to get hard whenever aroused. i'm just worried that it has been 3 days since last got hard. is this normal?

Many people experience this. Keep an eye on things and seek help if things persist, I'd otherwise suspect things to return back to as they are soon!

[Straya]

sorry if this question is stupid or not in right section or whatever. never asked anything like this but i'm kinda worried.

for the past several days i have gotten horny/aroused, but havent gotten hard. used to get hard whenever aroused. i'm just worried that it has been 3 days since last got hard. is this normal?

have you tried getting hard and cant or have you just been horny and not hard cause if youve just been horny and not hard thats normal

[Vermilion]

I think it's normal, just cos I'm aroused doesn't mean I get hard all the time. However if this carries on without you getting hard for a bit longer I'd see a doctor.

[Zachary G]

its very possible and very normal to get aroused without achieving an erection everytime. Being horny is an emotional feeling, not a physical one therefore, it is very possible to be horny and not have an erection just as it is possible to have erections and not be horny. Sometimes it just happens that way, but there is nothing wrong with you.

[colesixteen]

That has happened to me too. In fact I have even ejaculated when I was still soft. I am not sure what causes it, but I think it is a normal thing that happens to guys.

[Meh Guy]

I wouldn't say it's normal or abnormal to not have an erection for 3 days but I can say that it is normal to get horny without getting hard.

[DylanDanger]

Thanks everyone. I don't feel as bad :)

[Seahawks15]

I would talk to your doctor if it persists.I haven't really had this problem.Even if I'm slightly horny,it gets hard lol.

[Derek951]

I could see that happening, especially if you're sick, tired or stressed out. Your brain (which is really in charge of your arousal) could be working great, but your body is like "meh." I agree with most on here, wouldn't worry much about it yet, but something to check out if it goes on.

[SethfromMI]

don't worry yet, but it is an issue you should continue to watch and if it does, it does not hurt to go get checked out

[AceofSpades97]

I think it's fine so far but if it takes like way to long you should go to a doctor. And I can promise you at your age idk who said it but someone did you don't have a heart condition at least not suddenly at your age. Assuming that you aren't above 30 or something XD. But anyways no prob it happens erection don't happen that much if you are in a later stage of puberty I guesse I mean it's not like when you were 12/13 when you would get hard all the time. That is only a period in puberty

[Uniquemind]

I think it's fine so far but if it takes like way to long you should go to a doctor. And I can promise you at your age idk who said it but someone did you don't have a heart condition at least not suddenly at your age. Assuming that you aren't above 30 or something XD. But anyways no prob it happens erection don't happen that much if you are in a later stage of puberty I guesse I mean it's not like when you were 12/13 when you would get hard all the time. That is only a period in puberty

I said that because the circulatory system is largely responsible for maintaining an erection and I don't think young people should have this problem in most cases.

Some might have a heart problem and to be safe it is worth seeing a doctor to be on the safe side.

[Mercy99]

i think you should check with a doctor to be safe

[trackstar15]

It could be harmless, I've gone some days without getting erections. On the other hand I did get them when I woke up in the morning, are you still getting morning woods? If not then that is a little strange

[DylanDanger]

It could be harmless, I've gone some days without getting erections. On the other hand I did get them when I woke up in the morning, are you still getting morning woods? If not then that is a little strange

no, nothing at all, no morning wood or anything.

[Vermilion]

no, nothing at all, no morning wood or anything.

I'd start to get a bit concerned about it. If you can stimulate a hard yourself I wouldn't worry but if you can't I'd see a doctor. I get that it's embarrassing but it's better to get it fix early.

[Scott10111]

How hard have you tried to get hard?

[hockeyfan]

That can happen

[Uniquemind]

I repeat see a doctor pronto!

[Hermes]

For me horniness is more a long term feeling, for example I can feel horny for an hour or even several hours but I would be much less likely to be erect for that long.

I think to start with erections and feeling horny seem to be closely coupled so as soon as you start to feel slighly horny you become erect - with time that changes such that erections seem to be more common when not only are you horny but you also see some prospect of being able to do something about it or are thinking about something sexual.

Like some of the people before I am thinking three days without any erections at all is a long time and I wonder if you specifically mean spontaneous erections, i.e. where you have not deliberately started thinking about something sexy or started to touch your cock to start masturbating?

It would very unusual for me to to go three days without any erections at all as I'd usually masturbate several times in that period of time. The only time I can recall it happening is when ill and that seems to kill of being horny as well as the erections.

[Coleton]

I have to make myself hard. I can be super horny and not be hard at all.

[Bluebyrd]

Since I started getting boners I haven't gone a day without one but I'm sure it's nothing to worry about. In saying that, if it continues you might want to see a doctor.