Why?!

[RunnerRunner]

So this entire weekend, actually since Thursday my best friend has been sleeping over at my house. we've been friends for almost 3 years, we care about each other. I'm also his best friend and we count on each other. We help each other out and never let the other one fall. But since he is staying over he is spending so much time with my brother who he used to hate to death. Like he only spends time with him now and just leaves me behind. He's been trailing off with him when I was saying something important that was eating away at me. I only trust two friends, him and my friend who she is in college right now. But my friend now loves spending time witb my brother who is younger than him. I talked to him about it and he apologised but still trails off and never lets me know. Its really bothering me. He leaves me alone in my room while he goes with my brother to play guitar or does something. It maybe a fact that I never get along woth my brother but I'm not sure.

[SethfromMI]

has he said why? try talking with him again, but sadly there is not too much you can do. however, if he is going to be like this, than I would not waste any of my time on him as sad as it may be. if he is not going to make you a priority at all, esp when you are a friend in need, then he is not the type of person you want supporting you in the first place. it is ok he likes hanging with your brother, but something is def up and I would try to figure out what

[RunnerRunner]

has he said why? try talking with him again, but sadly there is not too much you can do. however, if he is going to be like this, than I would not waste any of my time on him as sad as it may be. if he is not going to make you a priority at all, esp when you are a friend in need, then he is not the type of person you want supporting you in the first place. it is ok he likes hanging with your brother, but something is def up and I would try to figure out what

he never said why, he just does, and see he isnt like this. He never trails off like this. This is the first time he has been doing it. Since Friday night this began. I don't want to unfriend him. He means alot to me, I can never trust anyone else but him and my friend in college. And see I dont mind it much but he is starting to just be with him alot more than he is with me. I feel like I'm just an old toy that he has stopped playing with and left me to feel alone in the closet.

[SethfromMI]

he never said why, he just does, and see he isnt like this. He never trails off like this. This is the first time he has been doing it. Since Friday night this began. I don't want to unfriend him. He means alot to me, I can never trust anyone else but him and my friend in college. And see I dont mind it much but he is starting to just be with him alot more than he is with me. I feel like I'm just an old toy that he has stopped playing with and left me to feel alone in the closet.

well it might not be anything, he might just suddenly realized a connection he had with your brother. why don't the two of you get away, by yourselves, and try talking to him again where there will be less distractions

[Abhorrence]

Why not spend some time with him away from your house or whatever? He can't really be distracted by the distraction if it isn't there. :P

[RunnerRunner]

Im not even sure of anything now. He walked into my room and barely noticed me and began to play video games with my brother. Im just that old toy left to rot in the attic.

[NickTheStar]

What's his sexual orientation?

[Abhorrence]

Im not even sure of anything now. He walked into my room and barely noticed me and began to play video games with my brother. Im just that old toy left to rot in the attic.

Get a better friend

[JVTeen]

Tell him directly how you feel, it works that way.

[Snydergate]

has he said why? try talking with him again, but sadly there is not too much you can do. however, if he is going to be like this, than I would not waste any of my time on him as sad as it may be. if he is not going to make you a priority at all, esp when you are a friend in need, then he is not the type of person you want supporting you in the first place. it is ok he likes hanging with your brother, but something is def up and I would try to figure out what

Seth hit the nail perfectly