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redjar14
April 4th, 2015, 09:45 PM
Does any one know why it takes longer to cum in the shower?

trackstar15
April 4th, 2015, 09:50 PM
Does any one know why it takes longer to cum in the shower?

Maybe you're not as comfortable in the shower standing up as you are laying down so it takes longer

KingLiam
April 5th, 2015, 03:21 AM
It doesn't

harristhetank
April 5th, 2015, 04:30 AM
I usually wank in the shower and it takes around 5 minutes for me. It will be different for everyone though.

Hideous
April 5th, 2015, 04:30 AM
The time it takes to ejaculate is different for everyone.

rex103
April 5th, 2015, 06:48 AM
It doesn't really take long for me either way.

HououinKiyoma
April 5th, 2015, 07:10 AM
Probably because the water acts as a lubricant.. It reduces the friction

seal6000
April 5th, 2015, 09:07 AM
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pjones
April 5th, 2015, 09:19 AM
doesn't really take longer for me in the shower

FameMonster
April 5th, 2015, 09:28 AM
For me, generally just takes longer when standing; I prefer to be comfortable sitting or in bed. I don't do it in the shower for that reason. Taking longer in the shower probably has to do with standing up combined with the hot water.

SethfromMI
April 5th, 2015, 11:21 AM
For me, generally just takes longer when standing; I prefer to be comfortable sitting or in bed. I don't do it in the shower for that reason. Taking longer in the shower probably has to do with standing up combined with the hot water.

two very good possibilities. I know I do not really like jacking off in the shower

oneill662
April 5th, 2015, 11:27 AM
Probably because your not as comfortable as on your bed

nklarke
April 5th, 2015, 12:34 PM
Because it's a lot more difficult to access porn sites or holding a "sexy" magazine while talking a shower.

hockeyfan
April 5th, 2015, 11:31 PM
I think it's because u r standing

Zachary G
April 7th, 2015, 03:21 PM
some guys can only get off sitting down, standing, or laying down and some guys can do it in all 3 positions, so maybe standing isnt a natural feeling position for you to achieve orgasm. maybe experiment with some other positions to see which ones work best for you.

Nathanw23415
April 7th, 2015, 05:39 PM
I personally like jacking in the shower. It's a different experience standing up though.

Meh Guy
April 7th, 2015, 08:00 PM
The time it takes to ejaculate is different for everyone.

Maybe you're not as comfortable in the shower standing up as you are laying down so it takes longer

Probably because your not as comfortable as on your bed

some guys can only get off sitting down, standing, or laying down and some guys can do it in all 3 positions, so maybe standing isnt a natural feeling position for you to achieve orgasm. maybe experiment with some other positions to see which ones work best for you.

All of these. It is most likely to do with your comfort. I can't cum standing up unless I'm super horny, personally.

mattsmith48
April 7th, 2015, 09:09 PM
Because it's a lot more difficult to access porn sites or holding a "sexy" magazine while talking a shower.

thats probably the main reason why

DylanAwesome
April 7th, 2015, 11:17 PM
I'm the same way. Like everyone said it's probably because your more comfortable in bed.

Pulp501
April 7th, 2015, 11:18 PM
It takes longer for me because I'm standing up, my arms get tired quicker when I'm standing

Lilo45
April 7th, 2015, 11:39 PM
Is always different some might do it faster in the shower

Mercy99
April 8th, 2015, 09:00 AM
i think its because ur standing up, but that also makes the orgasm more intense

matt_tgr
April 8th, 2015, 04:48 PM
I don't know about you, but it takes much less time fore me :D

the darkness
April 9th, 2015, 02:50 AM
Takes me longer as well

Scott10111
April 9th, 2015, 03:49 AM
Arms get tired quicker and the water acts as a lube but not properly.

Dreamer98
April 9th, 2015, 08:27 PM
For me , not more than 5 minutes ...

NickC
April 12th, 2015, 08:55 PM
Does any one know why it takes longer to cum in the shower?

I think it is because you are not used to doing it in there. Also if you dont usually jack off and cum while standing up, then that is also probably why. Like, for instance, i usually jack off while laying down on my bed. And for some reason, i cant jack off comfortably while standing or sitting up. And it also takes me forever to cum while standing up or sitting up.

elmoc
April 13th, 2015, 03:06 AM
Perhaps it also has something to do with the temperature of the water when you shower. For decades, guys have been advised to "go take a cold shower" when Horney with no outlet available.

It is more likely that you are showering with water that is much hotter than room temperature. Theoretically, a hot shower causes vasodilation (blood vessels open larger than usual) as an attempt to cool the body. If your water is hot & you are in the shower for a while, the body mat rerout blood to surface vessels of the skin (hence the red cheeks-top or bottom, lol.

It is possible that the rerouting of blood, as well as your body deciding that cooling your body temperature issue is a higher priority than orgasm. If this is the case, it can become slightly more difficult to focus on masturbating, when your body is busy responding to 110 degree F onslaught of your current environment.

BTW, your body also tries to maintain sperm viability at higher temperature by relaxing the scrotal tissue to

TapDancer
April 13th, 2015, 06:40 AM
I THINK, it is to do with your heart rate. An ejaculation causes your heart rate to quicken, heating the body. During a (presumably hot) shower, with hot water running down your body, heating it. The extra heat, plus the movement overheats the body, raising the heart rate even more. For this reason also, you might notice your ejaculations are weaker in the shower, than not. That you feel more exhausted in the shower while wanking, than not. But of course, everyone is different. But I do find it is more difficult to ejaculate in the shower due to this. That, and water is not a good lubricant ^.^

I'm no doctor, I've just based this on things I've read and personal experience. Did you know if your heart rate reaches a certain rate in that heat, it's possible for the body to faint? I found that out the hard way. Becareful when masturbating in the shower, don't exert yourself.

RavenR
April 13th, 2015, 02:42 PM
For me it takes almost the same amount of time. Probably, you are simply not really comfortable doing it is shower.

Snydergate
April 13th, 2015, 10:09 PM
I would say because we are standing and its not the most comftorable position for jerking off so it would take longer. When i do it, it takes about five minutes or so

Hermes
April 14th, 2015, 04:22 AM
On the rare occasions I have masturbated in the shower I have found it takes longer, and seem like more effort, than a quickie in bed. Of course a long edging session in bed takes even longer.

I also don't know the cause but for those who have proposed an explanation involving water or water temperature you could conduct an experiment: j/o in the shower cublicle with the water running one time, and without the water running another time and see which is easier/faster.

fkatwigs
April 14th, 2015, 10:11 PM
it usually takes me about 5 minutes to blow my load in or out of the shower. i usually do it in the shower though because there's more privacy

jtbates
April 26th, 2015, 10:07 PM
Its just not a comfortable.

The captain
April 26th, 2015, 10:26 PM
well It isn't my favourite place to do it and really don't take longer but I know that some people takes a lot or more time

ikabra17
April 27th, 2015, 07:15 AM
Takes me less time.

vboy
April 28th, 2015, 04:48 PM
I think its because ur standing up

teenpeck52
April 29th, 2015, 02:21 PM
I cant seem to stimulate my penis as well in the shower

Coleton
May 26th, 2015, 07:23 PM
I'm not sure why, but it also takes me longer to jack off while standing. It's probably because I am more comfortable when laying down in my bed.

Bluebyrd
May 26th, 2015, 08:26 PM
Probably because you're not as relaxed but I really couldn't tell you because I don't wank in the shower.

Georgysmith
May 27th, 2015, 05:17 AM
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lucaboy
May 27th, 2015, 09:24 AM
I´m more relaxed when lying or sitting, and so I can focus more on my dick and horny thoughts and mostly I cum quicker then.

fast8
May 27th, 2015, 10:05 AM
Everyone is different not everyone can do it in the shower standing up

JamesCam
May 27th, 2015, 10:14 AM
I don't find it so easy to wank standing so maybe that's y . But if I'm horny and wank I come just as quick

Gokingsgo12345
May 28th, 2015, 11:26 PM
I don't wank in the shower because I can't really get aroused because I'm preoccupied with cleaning myself

Jaffe
June 3rd, 2015, 06:41 PM
I suspect because you are standing up.
I've never wanked in the shower, but when I do it standing up, it takes longer to cum.

TSUNAMI
June 3rd, 2015, 10:07 PM
Does any one know why it takes longer to cum in the shower?

Because your standing

Airrd
June 3rd, 2015, 11:24 PM
When I tried that for the first time it took me a lot longer but I think that was because of the water and I've only done it twice but it takes longer than usual but also it is a different experience

EddieHoward96
June 4th, 2015, 04:53 AM
I just think its due to it being a big change from the normal way. Normally your lying in bed. A shower is a completely different situation, so i think that's why it can take longer.

imaginatrix
June 6th, 2015, 09:40 AM
If you stand while doing it in the shower, maybe that could be why. Usually people sit when they jack, so standing could take getting used to. People don't usually jack off with water splashing all around them, so that could play a part too. :)

Jdog5513
June 6th, 2015, 11:41 AM
I usually sit while I jerk off in the shower and it takes like twice as long as i would laying in bed

Hey_123
June 7th, 2015, 01:05 PM
For me it's easier laying down

mcloete
June 9th, 2015, 02:13 AM
I usually don't like doing it in the shower

TheFutureDoctor
June 9th, 2015, 03:28 AM
Hey ya it takes me a LONG TIME to cum in the shower. But yeah like someone said, it must be cuz u are not very comfortable

badblood
June 21st, 2015, 12:42 PM
Same for me, always is take more longer to cum when i make shower

Zerg
August 26th, 2015, 03:16 PM
usually it is harder for me because I am not laying down

fast8
August 26th, 2015, 03:54 PM
Everyone is different it just if you feel more comfortable standing or laying

Andre 99
August 27th, 2015, 03:26 PM
Does any one know why it takes longer to cum in the shower?
I usually cum in about 3 min in the shower

It doesn't

Heh, I agree with KingLiam, it takes me less time in the shower, than normal :D

ImTrickster
August 27th, 2015, 03:45 PM
You are most likely not as horny in the shower, or comfortable. I cant orgasm in the shower as i dont feel comfortable standing up and im not as horny

PaleBoy
August 27th, 2015, 04:36 PM
it´s actually quite the contrary for me.

Gokingsgo12345
September 4th, 2015, 08:54 PM
Not laying down

Mike Wazowski
September 5th, 2015, 07:16 PM
Same thing happens to me. I can do it, but it's just a lot harder standing up than sitting down. Maybe because it's just not as comfortable.